The girl born on the second day of July is unlucky. She is the second girl on the second day of the seventh lunar month in 1996.

The girl born on the second day of July is a bit unlucky to be a mother, and she is very active in parenting! (Text | Auntie)

With the progress of the country, although many old customs have been proved by modern science to be unreliable, the elders in their hometown still insist on letting their children implement and abide by many folk customs, such as not washing their hair next month or having children again in a good year.

Fan Fan was born in July of the lunar calendar, and the solar calendar is almost like August. From an early age, she heard her grandmother say, "Oh, we are all blessed children. July and August are blessed, and the twelfth month is bitter. Blessed are the children born in July and August. "

Fanfan didn't know what it meant when she was a child, but every time she saw her grandmother smiling and coquetry, she always felt that she was born at the right time and was a blessed person.

When she grew up, she suddenly reached the age when she wanted to be a mother. She has been thinking about her grandmother's sentence "Blessing July and August, the twelfth lunar month", and she was very concerned during pregnancy, thinking that she must have missed the twelfth lunar month to have a baby.

Fanfan's due date is February of the lunar calendar, she thought. She can't give the baby a better birth month, as long as she can avoid the twelfth lunar month. But it always backfires. At the end of the twelfth lunar month, Fan Fan was scared to give birth prematurely by the firecrackers set off by Xiong Haizi.

On the same day, Fanfan was sent to the hospital, crying while giving birth. She once collapsed and didn't want to give birth, just because she didn't want her child to be born in the twelfth lunar month. However, for the sake of safety, the hospital had to perform caesarean section immediately to save adults and children.

After the baby is born, no matter who looks at the baby, his heart is always full of regret and he feels that he has failed to live up to his expectations and let the baby be born in the twelfth lunar month. If he is not so timid, if he is stronger. If the child is miserable in the future, he will definitely blame himself.

My husband silently listened to Fanfan's emotions, but Fanfan only accumulated a little. Now that children have grown up healthily, their lively and cheerful personality has provoked adults to put it down, and it is the focus everywhere.

Fanfan has been doing psychological construction for himself: the words of the older generation are old traditions. Although my baby was born in the twelfth lunar month, he is still a blessed child.

Why do old people say that babies born in the twelfth lunar month are not blessed?

In the older generation, the twelfth lunar month was the coldest time in winter in a year, which meant that the weather was frozen and materials were scarce. Therefore, children born in the twelfth lunar month will face the harsh weather environment as soon as they are born, lack of heating equipment in the house, have to fight against the cold, and may even lack food.

Therefore, the impression left to the parents of the older generation is that children born in the twelfth lunar month are not blessed. Unlike children born in July and August, despite the hot weather, children at least won't freeze, and fruits and vegetables are also rich and varied.

So, is the baby born in the twelfth lunar month really not blessed? This is obviously true. It's not like it used to be. Every household has bought rich materials before the Spring Festival and is looking forward to the day of reunion with their families. Where is there a situation of not having enough to eat and not being warm?

Always pass on some unfounded old customs to children, what impact will it have on children?

Parents passing on these unfounded old customs to their children will have a double impact on their children. Children are passively "fortune-telling" by their parents. If it is "good luck", everyone is happy and will give them positive psychological hints. If it is "bad life", it will be unhappy, giving children negative psychological hints and wanting "".

1. Let children accumulate ideas.

Just like Fanfan in the above article, she thinks her life is good, so she has always been thoughtful and carefree. If we treat life, work and study comprehensively, we will live better and form a virtuous circle.

2. Make children feel negative and inferior.

But if you are a child with a bad life, you may fall into self-blame and resentment all day and lament the injustice of fate. You were born a bad life. When you encounter difficulties and setbacks, you attribute it to your bad life, and you may even give up or take revenge.

Aunt's conclusion:

As parents, we must cultivate and educate our children with a scientific heart, and don't blindly take the so-called "fortune-telling results" as the standard for judging children. No matter what year and month the child was born, remember-"My life depends on me". Everyone should actively create their own stories instead of being bound by old customs.

Today's topic: Do you think children born in the twelfth lunar month will be blessed? Share it with everyone.

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The above is about the bitter days of girls born on the second day of July, and it is about the sharing of parenting. I hope this will help everyone after reading 1996, the second daughter of the seventh lunar month!