Should friends who love to pour cold water stay away?

I have read many articles about throwing cold water recently. I also have a good friend who loves to pour cold water on me. She is very kind to me and takes care of me everywhere. We lived together for six years. She won't throw cold water on anything, only love. She is a person who has been hurt in love. She is divorced, so she will be very cautious about love and have the idea of never getting married. So as long as friends around her find someone or someone chasing her, she will throw cold water on others.

? Let's start with her throwing cold water on me. I am the kind of girl with gentle personality, good personality and good looks, so there are many suitors around me. At that time, a high school classmate contacted me and began to pursue me. At that time, his place of work was close, and he would cut off time to see me. He is good-looking and his height is not bad. Every time I play with you, I invite my friends to play with me. Here comes the problem. She seems a different person. Her face was cold and she didn't speak. When she asked her questions, she also answered them coldly. This is embarrassing for all of us. If we smile and feel embarrassed, we have to leave in a hurry. After the boys leave, she will say a lot about them. Said he didn't deserve me. And then it's over.

? At first, I thought my friend really didn't like that boy. Later, several boys chased me, including her introducing me to my cousin. After all, they are relatives, and they will not be so inhuman as other boys. She will also teach him how to chase me. Although I don't like his cousin very much, I promised his cousin to be his girlfriend for some reason and resigned to work in his city. My friend and I resigned that year, and she went back to get married. For some reason, it didn't work out, and she returned to her original company. She called me and asked me to go back to my old company, and then she started to say that his cousin's family believed in superstition and that his mother told us fortune-telling, so I was going to tell her husband, which completely scared me. Then we broke up.

? Then I met my current husband. After we met, I didn't ask my friends to play together because I was afraid of creating embarrassment and affecting our mood. It was not until I resigned and my husband came to pick me up that my friend saw that my husband was in a hurry. Just that side, and then start saying that you like this type, so thin and so on. Fortunately, I have left her, otherwise she will keep throwing cold water, and no matter how strong her feelings are, she can't stand throwing cold water again and again.

? I thought the boys I knew were really not so good in her eyes, so I couldn't get into her eyes. Later, my apprentice met a boy who was introduced by his family. He graduated from graduate school and is a potential stock. Although he is average in height and looks, he is super kind to my apprentice. Some time ago, my apprentice invited my friends to dinner on his birthday. When my friend saw the boy, she told me that they were not a good match at all. She also said that no matter how potential stocks were, they would have to wait for many years, and so on. Fortunately, she didn't say these words in front of my apprentice, otherwise she buried another bomb in her not very strong feelings.

? Another colleague, who is also a good friend of my good friend, found a rich second-generation boyfriend, a little fatty. That girl is beautiful and has a good figure. My friend said that I didn't expect my eyes to be like this. She should take a fancy to their money. Later, he said that the boy's house should be an empty shell, with no money, and his brother was ill, so the pressure should be quite great in the future. Of course, these words were addressed to me. I don't know if I said it in front of my colleagues. If I do, it should also make others feel uncomfortable.

? These behaviors of friends are the sequela left by the failure of marriage. I don't think all of us can be happy in love. Still want to remind us to polish our eyes and see the truth, and not to be carried away by happiness. But everyone's happiness is only known to himself, and others can't understand it at all. I hope she can get happiness and really feel that someone will really love her, really love her.