The fortune teller said I was married, and Zhihu _ the fortune teller said I was married.

What if the fortune teller says I've got a second marriage?

Calm analysis to prevent hasty divorce

Marriage and family are contradictory. Any marriage and family will have such contradictions. When there are contradictions and emotional cracks between husband and wife, it may involve the sensitive issue of divorce. At this time, preventing "the generation of divorce psychology" is a key link. In this regard, both husband and wife should calm down and seriously analyze, not to escape from reality, avoid contradictions, and not to intensify contradictions. Calm analysis is to calmly distinguish the fundamental problems and unprincipled problems that cause emotional collapse. For the fundamental problem, it is to urge the other party to realize the harm and help to save it; For those unprincipled problems, as long as they are tolerant of each other, there will be understanding. As long as we calmly analyze each other, especially recognize the misfortune that divorce brings to the family and children, put ourselves in the family's shoes and think about the children, we will reduce the blindness of divorce and avoid divorcing because of some trivial things and then regret it. This is a very irresponsible and serious attitude and practice.

(b) Constant adjustment to prevent boredom with marriage.

Every couple's married life will go through a period of boredom. Especially for most middle-aged couples, their marriage life has gone through the sweet period of marriage, the constant adjustment period of emotional life, the empathy period of bearing children, and the marriage boredom period of family conflicts, and gradually entered the deep and stable period of couples' attachment to each other. Then, to prevent the occurrence of divorce psychology, it is necessary to prevent the emotional fission in the boring period of marriage.