Be submissive, disobedient and know how to live.

Treating fate, some people think that "landing three lives is doomed"; Some people think that "there must be something in life, and there is no need to force it"; Some people think that "I don't believe in life, I only believe in working hard with my hands"; Some people think that "character is fate"; Some people think that "life is made by oneself, and life is born by heart" and so on. To sum up, there are three attitudes towards fate: one is to accept fate; One is disobedience; The first is to understand life.

Those who accept their fate regard fate as their master and turn themselves into their slaves. Let fate dominate and leave it to fate. Lack of basic self-confidence and basic consciousness. As a result, some people are ignorant and afraid; Some seek divination and fortune telling; Some blame others and feel sorry for themselves; Some walking dead, muddle along; Some are discouraged and give up on themselves. In short, go with the flow and live a negative life.

People who don't obey orders are arrogant and overestimate their abilities. They have to compete with fate, compete high and low, and decide whether to win or lose. As a result, some people are ambitious and talented, but their eyes are high; Some are blind and confident, lacking self-knowledge; Some are impetuous and eager for success; Some are toddlers, and the East is effective; Some ask for trouble and ask for it. In a word, it is self-righteous and crazy about life.

People in know life believe that besides manpower, there must be some mysterious forces that affect people's luck, such as the forces of nature and the universe. So, take the initiative to talk to fate on an equal footing; Actively communicate with destiny with a sincere attitude; Negotiate with fate seriously and amicably, and seek the greatest self-interest under the framework agreement reached by both parties. But I always believe that man proposes and God disposes. Be able to follow the fate, be flexible, advance and attack, retreat and defend, not be hard on yourself and not force others. In particular, you can look at the world and examine life with a peaceful mind and a panoramic view. As Schopenhauer said, "If a person focuses on the whole rather than his own destiny, he will behave more like a wise man than a victim." So I have a thorough understanding of the cause and effect of life, the understanding of the world, and the understanding of the meaning of life, thus reaching a higher realm of life.

Resignation is helpless self-pity and helplessness; Disobedience is the ignorance and arrogance of overreaching; Know that life is sober and hard. The Classic of Causality Theory says: "If you want to know the cause of the past, see its present fruit;" If you want to know the future fruit, see its present cause. " Cherish life and face life squarely. This is the wisdom of knowing life.