A boy in Beijing shouted at his grandmother on the subway: I won't let you sit, you old thing. what do you think?

It happened in Beijing: the boy shouted in the subway. Grandma: I won't let you sit down!

65438+February 2, Beijing. A netizen broke the news of Metro Line 4, and a boy shouted "I warn you to stand up". "What are you?" To get grandma to stand up! Don't you understand people? Grandma said, "If you make any more noise, I'll leave when I get off the subway, and then I'll leave you alone, because you are such a child." ... before grandma's words were finished, the boy shouted at grandma, "I won't let you sit down, you old thing!" "

The netizen said that when there was a free seat, grandma asked the boy to sit, but he didn't. As soon as grandma sat down, he shouted, "I won't let you sit in this old thing." During the period, the passengers in the car dissuaded him many times, and the boy roared, "Do your thing and leave me alone."

In the video, watching this child is only eight or nine years old. Why don't you have any education? How do parents usually educate and change wallpaper like this? Grandma is an elder, why not let her sit? In the face of the doubts of other passengers, the face is outrageous and unreasonable, and public places are so unscrupulous. It is conceivable that at home, you must be like an emperor!

Brother Dai means education! Education! Education! Where is the etiquette of the Chinese nation? ! National culture, national tradition, these are the spiritual pillars on which a nation lives! Now look, almost all of them are lost! The impact of western culture on us made us lose ourselves! Now, children are very happy when talking about Christmas and Halloween. They think these are fashionable and mainstream! Our nation should wake up! The commercialization of education is harmful to our democratic culture! China traditional culture must be passed down! It's really terrible that a nation has lost its faith and culture!

Some netizens said that this child really has good parents, that's all. If you are seriously imprisoned, I am afraid that you will have the death penalty if you count to eighteen! From you, I can see how your parents treat your grandmother. Doing things once or twice is not a habit, so it hurts family members, not children in society, not working people!

Brother Dai's conclusion: We know that most children are only children now. At home, they are loved by the elderly and spoiled by their parents, and they will not do any housework. They only know how to wear the best, eat the best and play the best. In the end, they won't even love the parents who gave birth to him and raised him. Parents, please wake up. Paying attention to children's growth is more important than success. Being a man is more important than doing things. A child's ability is more important than knowledge. Children's moral education is more important than intellectual education!

Super sister's point of view "I won't let you sit on the old stuff!" " The boy yelled at his grandmother in the subway and broke everyone's three views. Is this his own grandson or an animal? With such a grandson, you can imagine what kind of son you will have and what kind of parents you will have. Everything a child says and does reflects his parents' words and deeds. I am speechless about such children, and I want to talk to their parents! Jiaowa, it's ok to spoil a baby, but you can't get used to it. Look at your child's grandmother. Today is your parents' tomorrow. Parents of your children should reflect!

Parents should not make excuses for their children, no matter what the previous reason is, no matter how old the child is, no matter how abusive the child is ... such a simple thing shows that a child's family education and upbringing, what he learned at home and school is all for nothing, and the traditional Chinese virtue of respecting the old and loving the young is not lip service, nor is it performed for outsiders. Is to leave respect and gratitude to the people around you, and you can't help but respect them.

The bad habits of the children in the picture are not a day or two. The reason why he didn't respect grandma so much was entirely because his parents didn't respect his parents. How dare eight or nine-year-old children call grandma away like this? It seems that this grandmother is always angry with her children at home. Everything happens for a reason, and grandma's usual education for her children is now fully reflected in her own body. Looking at her grandson's ferocious face, is this grandmother also reflecting on her past? How did she educate her children, and how did his children educate their grandchildren? It's all cause and effect.

At the beginning of life, the nature is good, and the child is a blank sheet of paper, all of which are doodled by parents. The child was mutilated by his parents! We readers should not blame our children for being uneducated and uneducated, but our parents and grandmothers. Why didn't we educate our children well and be good parents? Everything tolerates and indulges children and makes them lawless. Now you don't educate him. Will you leave him to the police and prison education in the future? Today, he is arrogant. Will he commit murder and arson tomorrow? It's time for parents to wake up. You're not loving your children, you're conniving your children into the fire pit!

Now an eight-year-old child doesn't respect the old man and his grandmother. Will you respect his parents when you raise him? He will only be selfish and self-centered when he grows up. Today, he is not happy to make a scene. Tomorrow, he may start to do things. Isn't that what his parents are doing?

Parents should not think that he is still a child and not sensible, and he will grow up well. Such connivance will not form a good habit, but will only encourage his hostility and lead him to the point of no return in the future!

Everyone will be angry and accused after reading this news, but after being angry, should they also reflect on their education and words and deeds, and really set a positive example for their children? Let's think about it and take a warning!

The boy on the Beijing subway shouted at his grandmother, I won't let you take this old thing. This incident illustrates a very considerable and common problem: parents love and spoil their children, which leads to their lack of gratitude. His "bad" will affect their children's life, which is the last thing we want to see. Children of this age can call grandma an "old thing" in front of everyone, but he just won't let her do it. When people around him educate him, he is indifferent and still takes a disapproving attitude, which is not only the sorrow of family education, but also the sorrow of this child.

On February 2, 65438, netizens broke the news that a boy on Beijing Metro Line 4 swore at his grandmother and kept her seat standing up. The old man was weak and grandma didn't agree to the child's request. Because of this, the boy was completely angry.

Child: I'm warning you to get up!

Grandma: If you make trouble again, I'll rent it myself when I get off the subway, and then I won't bother you, because children like you. ...

Passenger: Which school are you from?

Child: smelly school, what's it to you? Get out!

Passenger: Do you know that you are annoying everyone?

Child: Go about your business and leave me alone!

Grandma: I don't need a tutor. If you do, I won't pick you up in the future.

Child: Never mind, let grandma get up.

It's really sad for a pupil to treat his loving grandmother like this and let outsiders see this scene. Old people always like their grandchildren very much. China's grandparents should have the highest love for their grandchildren in the world. Most grandparents give up their life, entertainment and hobbies and come to their children's homes to help take care of them, accompany them to grow up, prepare food for them, take them out to play and take them to school. Even some old people have to accompany and guide their children to do their homework. How many children are grateful to their grandparents and like them best, because they really love themselves and don't like to criticize themselves like their parents.

However, there are some cases, such as the boy in the question. From grandma's mouth, we can know that grandma is responsible for picking up and taking care of the children to and from school every day, and usually spends most of her time with her baby grandson. But grandma who loves her grandson so much has neither won his respect nor his love. In the eyes of grandson, she is even worse than passers-by, which really makes the old man sad. The reason is, I think the most important thing.

With the doting of parents, children are now the apple of their eye. Every parent gives their children the best food, clothing, shelter and transportation, and thinks that their children are the best. Therefore, in such doting, some aspects of children's temper and temperament are neglected and indulged when they are young, so as children grow up, some bad habits and problems are gradually formed, but these are nothing in the eyes of parents. For example, what a child says to his grandmother doesn't even have the minimum courtesy and respect. We can think of the boy's attitude when he talks to his parents at home. He is very naughty, disobedient and likes to talk back to others. As long as he likes it, he gets angry and swears. Such children really don't know what kind of family education they have experienced.

The reason why this child has such behavior is not to blame the child, but to blame his parents and grandparents. They regard unprincipled doting as their due love, so in this indulgent love, the child gradually develops a rebellious, self-righteous and demanding character, and naturally scolds grandma as mentioned above.

Treat children, love them, but manage them with determination. Managing children is like studying. If it is not based on gradual, slow and steady learning, how can we get good grades? If children are not educated well when they are young, they will gradually develop bad habits. After bringing him up, it is too late for you to change his temper. Coupled with the child's rebellion, it will eventually lead him to go further and further on the wrong road.

I think the boy's speech and behavior may be caused by two reasons: first, the only child in the family is spoiled at ordinary times and is the "bully" in the family; Second, whether the boy's parents are also grumpy, or whether grandma's daily words are more threatening, so that children can follow suit.

Recently, a netizen broke the news that a little boy on the Beijing subway ordered his grandmother to get up and say, "I won't give you this old thing to sit on!" " Hearing this, the boy's grandmother also pointed to the child and said:

"What do you think you look like? Tell you, just like you, I will never send you to pick you up from tomorrow, let your parents find a way! "

The passengers next to him don't like it. Come on, be reasonable. As a result, the boy replied in a word: "I'm doing your thing, go down and leave me alone!" " "The little boy is very arrogant.

Look at this child who is only seven or eight years old. How come he has no education at all? You can imagine how arrogant you will be at home if you are so unreasonable in public! This reminds us of the previous "Wuhan subway girl kicking her mother" incident.

In this regard, people can't help but feel that what is wrong with children now? Whose fault is this?

Wuhan subway girl kicks her mother.

First of all, from the video, we can see that the little boy is very arrogant, pressing his grandmother step by step, and the boy's grandmother seems to be restless and bossing the boy around. Isn't that a problem?

Some netizens said that the boy's behavior was definitely wrong, but grandma didn't appease his emotions first, and then went home to teach him a lesson, but directly condemned and threatened the boy in public. Perhaps, it is the education method like grandma that gradually makes children more rebellious.

In short, the boy called grandma an "old thing" and refused to let her sit down, which also reflected the boy's inner dissatisfaction and disgust with her. You can't just look at superficial things and scold boys blindly. You should explain them in simple terms, and maybe you can know why.

We don't know whether the boy's parents have problems, but generally speaking, the child's performance is enough to reflect the upbringing of a family. Therefore, his parents may have two problems in education:

First, in the daily education process of boys' parents, most of them use beating, cursing, threatening and preaching. In the face of strong parents, children have no right to speak and can only obey. But I can only find a relatively weak grandmother to vent my dissatisfaction;

Second, the boy is an only child and is usually spoiled. Therefore, when he wants a seat, he takes it for granted. He lost his temper when grandma didn't meet his demands.

On the whole, the child, for whatever reason, is so small. He will understand when he grows up. I'm afraid it will become a "cancer" of society, which makes people think very hard!

Whose children are so overbearing that they don't even understand the most basic etiquette, justice, honesty, respect for the elderly and love for the young, and even have the most basic upbringing.

What happened: On February 2, 65438, a boy shouted "I warn you to stand up" and "What are you?" To get grandma to stand up. Don't you understand people? Grandma said, "If you make any more noise, I'll leave when I get off the subway, and then I'll leave you alone, because you are such a child." ... before grandma's words were finished, the boy shouted at grandma, "I won't let you sit down, you old thing!" "

Grandma asked the boy to sit when there was a free seat, but he didn't. As soon as grandma sat down, he shouted, "I won't let you sit down, old thing." During the period, the passengers in the car repeatedly dissuaded him, and the boy said angrily, "Do your thing and leave me alone."

A child of eight or nine years old has no education at all. When a three-year-old child goes to kindergarten, the teachers have taught him to respect the old and love the young. How do parents usually teach him? Grandma is old, why not let her sit down? In the face of others' doubts, he is unreasonable. In public, he must be a little emperor at home.

As the saying goes, wash your dirty linen in public and educate your children behind closed doors, but this grandmother didn't. She always says it's wrong when the children are noisy, so public criticism will only make the children angry and get worse. Making trouble in public places will only make children more and more shameful and make more people blame them. Old people should appease their children in time and resolve their embarrassment. The fault of children is not the children themselves, but the improper education of adults.

Children can only be caused by parents. The child was born with a blank sheet of paper. Later, every painting on them could not be separated from their parents.

Children's attitude towards grandma also reflects parents' attitude towards the elderly, and children's words and deeds are influenced by their parents. How are your parents? Old people and children, too. Children form habits.

As the saying goes, "if the son doesn't teach, the father has made a mistake." I believe this boy will become rude. Apart from the doting of grandparents, his parents will of course be obedient to him. We can understand the care of the elders for their children, but as guardians, parents not only have the obligation to raise their children, but also have the responsibility to discipline them. Therefore, this is the result of parents not paying attention to family education.

It probably happened that a boy and his grandmother took the subway. I took the subway once. Grandma asked the boy to sit, the boy didn't sit, and grandma went to sit. But the boy wouldn't let him sit, not only wouldn't let his grandmother sit, but also yelled at her and called her an "old thing".

Look at that video, the boy is estimated to be 6 or 7 years old. He thinks the child is young and has a big breath. The other person is his grandmother and his elder, but the boy has no respect for his elder. It is estimated that he is also bullying at home and going his own way.

How did a child become like this? Probably inseparable from his family's education. It is true that families nowadays are basically children. It can be said that they have devoted the love of generations and want to give him their best things. They also tolerate children's little temper everywhere. They think he is just a child and will change when he grows up. This is a big mistake. No matter now, he can't control it in the future.

It is under the connivance again and again that the child takes everything for granted and thinks that everyone owes him. Everything should be given to them at the first time. Over time, children become selfish and ungrateful. In this case, the child can call her "old thing" in front of her grandmother, which means that she can't be called out for no reason, whether it is her parents or other relatives around her.

It can be seen that disrespect for elders is not only caused by usual doting, but also influenced by parents or other elders. Their parents or elders are immoral, how can they expect their children to learn well? If parents who are children now treat their elders like this, future parents will suffer the same treatment.

As the saying goes, "parents love their children, so it is far-reaching." If you really want your children to have a bright future, then you should think long-term, put away your deep love properly, be strict with your children, eliminate their mistakes in the cradle in time, and set a good example for your children. Only in this way can you be really kind to children, and don't always think that "he is just a child" will lower the requirements for children.

Explain that children's family education is too poor, they don't know how to respect the old and love the young, and they have no gratitude. What children do is inseparable from their parents' education. His mother must call her mother-in-law an old thing in this way. Her words and deeds are role models for her children. How you treat her mother-in-law, her children will treat you in the future.

The word "old stuff" is derogatory, abusive and insulting.

When a person is in a mood with others and loses his temper, he sometimes blurts out this sentence.

Used to scold your family, and you are your closest relative. This sentence is for grandma.

Judging from the reaction of this child's grandmother, this child should often say this sentence, which is his mantra.

She is helpless and has a headache for the child.

"Warning Grandma" and "What are you?" I won't let you sit down.

"smelly school" tells others to mind their own business.

Roar, roar, make noise.

Arrogantly pointing at grandma, with no respect for grandma in his eyes,

Without basic education and respect.

Like a bully, arrogant.

Grandma has been patiently persuading the children, but the children are bent on their own way and don't take grandma seriously at all.

I didn't want to take care of him, knowing that others were filming his embarrassment and didn't stop him.

The child is unruly, willful and arrogant.

It should be caused by his parents' doting on him.

Indulge, ignore his disrespectful attitude towards others.

I think he is still a child, too young to understand.

He has been at home for a long time, and his parents promised him everything he wanted and wanted to give his children a good living condition.

A spoiled child is like killing a child.

As the child's first teacher, his parents set a bad example for him.

Parents' attitude towards grandma at home.

How do children know and learn the word "old things"?

This word is often used by adults.

His parents probably didn't treat his mother much better at home.

Like father, like son, parents often scold their mother "old things" at home.

Children are highly imitative and learn from their parents' habits and appearances.

Self-awareness and imitation have been strengthened,

This grandmother's position in her own family may also be very humble, and her grandchildren don't take her seriously.

In the eyes of her grandson, she is as unscrupulous as an outsider.

Have no scruples and are not subject to any constraints.

What's the other one?

In terms of school spirit, his eyes are smelly schools.

School is a place to study, stressing civilization and moral quality.

This is true for schools, where attitudes towards teachers and classmates can be much better.

The most important lesson for parents is to educate their children about virtue.

Have awe of others.

Respect for others means respect for yourself.

If you don't respect others, others won't respect you.

People need to put themselves in others' shoes.

Grandma loves you, and there's nothing she can do.

I don't want to hit you.

However, other people in society don't know your character and bad temper.

They will not condone and forgive your attitude and behavior.

This attitude will suffer sooner or later.

Only in this way can children learn to remember and respect others.

The tone of the child threatening grandma is exactly the same as that of pointing at people. Grandma's words revealed the threat and rejection to the children. I can see that grandma is exhausted with her children. While pampering, I blame my children for all kinds of threats. From beginning to end, there is no direct and resolute denial and stop of children's irrational and impolite behavior. There is no explanation why the child is not allowed to sit down and appease. Only threats, intimidation. Children treat their grandmothers in the same way.

Some people have two ways to educate their children. One is to meet all their needs and let them fly high, and no one dares to bully them. The second is to crack down on all his behaviors that are not planned by his parents, making him extremely weak and no one dares to provoke him. Obviously, Beijing boy's education method is the first one, which makes him very arrogant. The words used during the period are also very uncivilized: "What are you! I warn you to stand up. I won't let you sit down, you old thing. "

Because this child looks less than ten years old, the biggest source lies in the education of parents. For example, when children show signs of swearing, they should criticize education in time. Instead of conniving, I think it is good for children. Some parents even think: "Children are so good, at least they will not be bullied." Whoever said this must be crazy. Although he will not be bullied by ordinary children, being bullied is being bullied by people who are more horizontal and vicious than him.

What is a father? A good teacher. Perhaps the father of the child has been working and has not participated in the growth of the child, which makes things so cruel. Secondly, this attitude from childhood is not much different from that of people when they grow up. There is no strict discipline at such a young age, and it is even more uncontrollable when you grow up. A child like this should not be spoiled, which is of no use to his growth.

We should give him strict education and suppress his evil spirits. If he is allowed to continue to grow, his attitude towards people will offend many people. Secondly, respecting the old and loving the young is a traditional virtue, and respecting the old comes first. A country can see all kinds of convenient temperatures for the elderly. Here, I love children, and many netizens said that they all want to give this child a few feet directly, which is really crazy.

Everyone will get old one day. Maybe the child is old and treated like this by other children, and he doesn't feel bad. I hope his parents will educate their children before they become domineering to a certain extent. After all, it's not too late! And grandparents, stop doting on such children. If this continues, something will happen to the children sooner or later!