Why should the little routine that makes men think about you day and night be cold?

People always say that sincerity is the most touching thing. When you meet people, you must be honest with each other. If you have many routines, it will be more complicated.

However, in heterosexual communication, sincerity may be the most useless means, especially for women. When they want to pursue a man, even if they are sincere and have no routine, the final outcome will not be too happy.

Therefore, in the process of getting along with men, women must learn to get along skillfully with the men they like, instead of simply paying and waiting with enthusiasm.

It's important for men to remember you, just don't be too enthusiastic and active.

You know, in a man's mind, the more active a woman is, the cheaper she is. Even if your love is sincere and unreserved, it can't enter his heart.

"If you can't get it, you will love more. If you come too easily, you will ignore it." This sentence tells people's bad habits and warns women that if you want a man to miss you day and night, you must keep a certain distance from him.

Put away your enthusiasm and initiative, be reserved, be proud, and be cold to men, but it will have unexpected results.

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Liu joined a new company, and soon after the probation period, she fell in love with her colleagues.

She is the kind of outgoing and cheerful personality. When she found out that she was in love with Kelly, she began to plan how to start pursuing him. She even began to secretly fantasize about the happiness and sweetness of two people together.

Make up your mind and do it. Liu is such a power figure.

Therefore, even if she and Kelly are not in the same department, she will constantly create occasional encounters and usually run around in front of him when she has nothing to do.

She is also very kind to Kelly, thinking of him whenever something good happens. Even if she is far away, she will be happy to say hello to him.

But for me, since Liu confessed to him, people around him kept joking, which made him feel a little uncomfortable and even humiliated Liu.

Although Liu has always been very enthusiastic, every time he faces a cold face, no matter how enthusiastic he is, he gradually disappears, so he doesn't appear in front of him.

On the one hand, of course, because of the frustration of self-esteem, I feel that there is no need to be too wronged. On the other hand, I'm also gambling to see if my cold treatment of Wang Ke will change.

Unexpectedly, when Liu stopped provoking, everything took a turn for the better and began to get a little unaccustomed. When someone mentions Liu's name, he will be very concerned and will always pay attention to her.

Finally, I kept brushing my sense of existence in front of Liu, and the person who was chased became a chaser. Liu finally got his wish and was with the man he liked.

Of course, after being together, Liu is not very enthusiastic. She has thoroughly understood that getting along with men who are too enthusiastic will be rejected, but a little coldness is more conducive to the long-term development of feelings.

Therefore, although she loves Kelly very much, she won't be too obvious, which occasionally makes Kelly feel that they have been at arm's length.

Facts have proved that Liu's approach is correct. Her routine didn't bore Kelly, but she put all her heart into herself.

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There are many women who are always enthusiastic when they get along with men, for fear that their poor performance will make men unhappy.

But in fact, the more active a woman is, the less a man knows how to cherish it.

Smart women have their own routines and means when they get along with men. They will hide their fiery sincerity to men in their hearts and wrap them in "cold".

So if a woman wants a man to miss you day and night, be cold to him.

Be cold and keep equal status.

In fact, on the day when a woman begins to take the initiative to pay, the status of two people is no longer equal.

Because in a man's heart, your initiative and enthusiasm will make him feel that he should be the one to enjoy, and he will enjoy everything you have done for him with peace of mind.

This is not good for women. Although it is a sign of love to do something for the person you love, once the status of two people is not equal, all a woman can get from this relationship is humility and neglect.

Therefore, to be cold, girls who actively pursue men should not be too humble, but should try their best to be in the same position.

Cold and more mysterious.

In fact, when women begin to pursue, they basically show themselves to men in an unobstructed view.

However, when you become transparent and have no secrets in front of men, men will feel that this relationship is not fresh and mysterious, which is the lubricant for two people to be together.

Although, many women feel that since they like each other and sincerity is the best way to pursue it, they should tell each other everything without reservation.

However, you should know that this will only make men feel that you are so much, and all the attraction is exhausted in the face of "transparency".

Therefore, it is better to get along with men in a cold way. Don't let the other person know all about your life. Keeping a little mystery will make the other person want to know you.

Cold makes the other person more conquering.

Although this is not very friendly, it is true that people are always "mean". The more they take the initiative to send, the less they cherish it. On the contrary, the harder it is to get something, the more they want it.

The same is true of love between men and women. Women's initiative and enthusiasm will make men feel that this relationship can be obtained casually and will not be cherished too much.

For a woman, it is the best state to let the other person know that you like him a little, but only a little.

So women, be cold, don't let the other person get all your likes, let the other person pursue you, and you will get twice the result with half the effort.

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There will always be people who say that it is a very bad behavior to be cold and hot in love, but in the process of getting along with men, indifference is actually a very practical routine that can make men miss you day and night.

You know, things that are easy to get are hard to cherish, so it is cruel to let a man cherish the feelings between you and learn to pay in this relationship, instead of just waiting for you to love him.

A little indifference is just a small routine, but in many cases, it may achieve better results than enthusiastic and straightforward efforts.

So be indifferent from time to time, don't be too enthusiastic, it will make men miss you day and night.