What's it like to be better than your predecessor?

I believe that many people can't be indifferent to the problems of their predecessors. Although they know that he has nothing to do with themselves, their emotions will still fluctuate when they hear about each other's lives. After all, he is an ex and a person who has given his feelings. So even if two people have broken up, he should pay attention to some things in life. Although he didn't mean to disturb him, he really wanted to know him.

Since after two people break up, it has nothing to do with how the other person will go in the future, so whether he is well or not has nothing to do with me. But when we want to know how this person is recently, we will pay special attention to his normal life. I believe many people will feel a little sad at this time. I believe many people have had the feeling that they will feel uncomfortable knowing that their ex is better than themselves, but they will still feel very sad knowing that he is not doing well.

In fact, this is the normal life. After all, we are all born selfish, and no one is selfless, especially when dealing with our predecessors. Maybe I used to love him very much, but once I broke up with him, I don't want to talk about it again. Even if the past is sweet with joy or bad, it is a thing of the past. There's no need to worry now. But when I see that he is doing well, I will feel in my heart, why is he doing so well? But if his life is not smooth, he will feel a little unbearable in his heart, and it will make people feel distressed to see her like this.

However, in my opinion, the real letting go is that everything about your ex has nothing to do with you. No matter whether he is doing well or not, it sounds like a stranger's business to you and will not involve your emotions, so as to show that you really let go of this relationship.