What is the mentality of those lovelorn patients who want to get back together?

Feelings are inherently unattainable, relying on attraction. Asking for trouble is still called affection? That's because others feel sorry for you and give themselves to you for the time being. It is not so much that you don't love it as that you can't want it; It is better to say that you are worthless and don't know how to attract each other twice! Why do you want to find such a far-fetched excuse to comfort yourself? Each of us has a common psychological weakness: fear! Fear comes from fear, because you are afraid of really losing him, so you feel panic and keep trying to please each other, but this hinders the progress of your relationship. Is it because you are afraid that you will not do it? I'm afraid of plane crashes, too. This is a major issue related to personal safety, so I won't sit down? Aren't you going to sit down It's different. Are you still sitting? People have a 2% chance of having an accident when they go out. Aren't you afraid of an accident? So you're not going out? They are all afraid, so why can't you overcome your psychological weakness! ! !

Everything we do is risky, usually the greater the risk, the greater the income, such as stock trading! If you want to fight back against him, you must take this big risk for me, because this is the price you have to pay, and this risk is within our tolerance. For example, when you have been exposing your sense of need before, you suddenly stop now, which is also a risk, but the effect and progress you get are much greater than your previous behavior! Moreover, this seems to be a big risk, but it is not a risk, because as long as you persist, it will have an effect, and this risk is just an empty decoration! In short, if you want to counterattack, you must overcome your psychological weakness and don't hinder your development because of fear.