Collected a lot of topics and conversations with my sister! ! ! !

2 eye contact

Strive for solitude

4 pretend to be innocent. Many people will mature in a group and have experience in male and female affairs. You can do the opposite and pretend to be innocent, which will attract her attention.

Sit as close as possible.

6 opinions and opinions

7 food temptation

8 strengthen contact. Ask her to call you, by saying that she didn't wake up in the morning or other similar reasons, to strengthen the frequency of contact with each other.

9 Divination and fortune telling All women will be interested in some fortune-telling predictions and the like. So, if you are familiar with one or two of them, you will have a better chance to get close to them than others.

10 *** Same hobby

1 1 Borrowing things means "thinking about people when seeing things". When you or she has the other person's things, you will miss each other. Therefore, often borrowing things from each other (such as books and small bags) can increase the mental impression.

12 pet policy

13 often happens to a group of people, and the male and female fronts are separated like primary school students. If you put on a biased attitude towards women, she will think you are a lovely person.

14 similar in appearance

15 When you meet her with a smile, don't forget to bring a kind smile, which will make her feel happy to meet you and leave unforgettable memories.

16 righteously refute and stop a friend from insulting women or saying nothing, so that she feels special respect for you.

17 Painting her portrait is the easiest way to please. The cuter she is, the better the effect. So, learn some skills in this field from now on!

18 Give her something lovely or not available in the market, which will definitely make her happy. The value of the gift is not expensive, mainly because you have to create a good reason to emphasize that it is memorable.

19 emphasize that the other party's consumption is usually "AA system", but when you collect other accounts, you should exempt her and let her know that you are different from others.

Intimacy is that you show your concern for her with some small gestures (such as dusting her clothes and handing her paper towels). As long as it is not too explicit, she will accept it and will not resist.

Pursuing five compulsory measures for girls

The first trick: know yourself and know yourself. Know yourself first: What is my personality? What are my interests? What is my outlook on life? What about values? Then recognize the object: what personality is the object of pursuit? What are her interests? What is her outlook on life? What about values? Recognise the enemy: Who is her suitor? Which one stands out? What are his characteristics? On the whole, after several thoughts, find out your own strengths, carry forward them, find out his weaknesses, be careful not to make mistakes, know yourself and know yourself, and win every battle.

The second trick: nothing ventured, nothing gained, courage and care. After recognizing the enemy and me clearly, you should be confident and bold, actively launch an offensive, and take the first step bravely if you love her. Rose perfume, phone card: a phone call every day, a rose, don't forget to send a small gift on your birthday, such as a fragrance and a small card, which is a hundred times warmer.

The third measure: a father loves his brother and loves his brother. A girl can be said to be a combination of weakness and greatness. She sometimes looks like a little girl and needs to be taken care of; Sometimes like a little mother, she is good at taking care of others. Taking advantage of this trait, the boy constantly plays the kind father to care for her, and occasionally plays the little baby to let her play the maternal glory; Sometimes playing the role of mentor and friend, and sometimes playing the role of big brother, the road to love must be smooth and unparalleled.

The fourth measure: combine hard and soft, be kind and gentle, be obedient to girls from beginning to end, not necessarily good. The cleverest way is to combine rigidity with softness. Sometimes gentle, sometimes a little overbearing; Sometimes spoil her, and sometimes establish a small authority image, the flexible use of the two will surely win every battle.

The fifth measure: tight encirclement. Although the object of your pursuit is her, please remember that the decision is up to her and the influence is in her family! So you must go to her house often, from grandparents, parents, uncles and aunts, to brothers and sisters, and even her domestic dogs and pets, you must show your versatility and go through customs clearance. As the saying goes, "the population is soft and the manpower is short", I will put in a good word for you in front of her, making her feel that losing you will be a lifelong regret.

Women should tell the man they love something important.

1. The gift is not expensive, but sincere. From a woman's point of view, the best gifts are simple gifts, not flashy and exaggerated gifts.

2. Many women are really afraid that they are not beautiful enough. Women need a clear compliment: "I like that hairstyle" or "You look good in red". This kind of praise can encourage a woman, make her pay attention to dressing up and keep love moist.

4. Women need men to listen to her patiently. Conversation in men's minds is a way to study problems, debate right and wrong, and find solutions. In order to achieve this goal, he may repeatedly interrupt a woman and ask her to "understand" his meaning. However, women prefer men to listen kindly rather than express their opinions all the time. They will keep talking until they feel comfortable again.

Women don't fall in love as easily as men. When choosing a spouse, women usually pay more attention to various practical factors. Women may need love very much, but there is still an expert in their hearts asking: Is this man reliable? Therefore, men should not only pay attention to hair style, clothes and manners, but also be kind, generous, loyal and reliable.

6. Respect her advantages, tolerate her shortcomings, and hope that she will treat him in the same way.

In short, what she needs is to know her friends, lovers and partners.

★★★★ Say goodbye to her skills ★★

It's best to say goodbye to her at the right station, wait with her until the bus comes, and then leave after she gets on the bus. So that women won't feel that you are not tightly entangled. If she is willing to let you take her home, it means that she has a little mutual affinity for you. At this time, the time must be separated, that is to say, the first date should end when the girl still wants to get along with you. This is the trick to make her look forward to her next date. At the same time, you should use the following invitation skills. For example, while waiting for the bus, you ask her, "Today is the summer solstice. Do you know what the summer solstice means? " She said she didn't know, and then the car came. You said, "Well, I'll tell you on our next date." Repeat the next time and place, and then send her to the car. Or, when she was about to break up, she said, "I am very happy with you." You must stop at once and say, "Great. I will make you happier next time. " Then repeat the time and place of the next appointment as appropriate.

Sexual intercourse, don't forget-English is the standard horizontal writing.

The more fidgety a person is, the easier it is to see through her mind, just like when she meets the right man, her face will automatically flush. These little moves always appear out of control when you think they shouldn't.

However, women have also become more lovely because of these little moves. Try to think about being with a wooden beauty with a poker face and a red face. What's the fun? (The following analysis is for reference only)

Chin in both hands: "Goose, what can I say to make you understand my heart?" She silently protested helplessly, urging you to read your mind quickly. Did you get it?

Cover your mouth with your hand: Oh! The princess met the prince. A deep feeling of joy made her involuntarily sip her dry lips. Besides, I long for the prince's warm kiss.

Keep crossing your legs: she is impatient. Change the subject quickly! Or ask her if she has any troubles to solve, and don't talk about her "great achievements"

Frequently fiddling with hair: This is one of the favorite actions of women with long hair, especially when they meet handsome guys. Of course, women who like to do this action have more than half confidence in their looks or hairstyles.

Always rubbing the skirt feet: wearing a narrow mini skirt, but pulling the skirt nervously for fear of being seen. This kind of woman is basically conservative, but it may also be to keep her previous bad record from the other side. Beware of fraud!

Keep fiddling with the tablecloth or decorations at hand: In order to cover up the embarrassment between each other, women often fiddle with the small things on the dining table, sometimes lifting the handle of the sugar jar up and down, or folding the napkin around ... At this time, you must find some interesting topics to attract her attention, otherwise, she will really suffocate.

Touch your face with your hands: Women who are about to enter the early stage of love often touch their faces with their hands, so they will try to touch her face with their hands in an attempt to hide that unnatural feeling because they are afraid that the other person will see her unnatural amorous feelings or blush.

Definition of girlfriend

A girlfriend is someone who tries her best to make you happy when you are angry. For your happiness, she would rather do everything she can't do.

A girlfriend is the one who keeps your promise engraved in her heart, but still keeps begging you hard and never regrets it.

Girlfriend is the person who counts raindrops footprints with you in the wind and rain, and then seriously says "don't do it next time" for your health.

A girlfriend is someone who loves you forever but refuses to express it anyway.

A girlfriend is someone who draws pictures and writes poems for you under the rotating light.

Girlfriend is the one who lets you gently carry her on the road, walk at the same pace as you, and let the affectionate footprints be engraved on your heart everywhere.

A girlfriend is the one who is always worried that she is not beautiful enough or cute enough in front of you.

A girlfriend is the one who keeps reminding you not to be late for work in bed, but can't help but wet your back with tears.

Girlfriend is the one who looks strong in hardships. After seeing you, she falls down like a pear flower.

Girlfriend is the one who keeps you intoxicated with clear singing and laughter.

A girlfriend is the one who can walk with you no matter how dangerous you are, and always patting her chest in retrospect.

A girlfriend is someone who can accompany you to climb steep cliffs, drill caves and laugh in your arms when you are still childlike.

Girlfriend is the person who tries to find the reason to combine with you from fortune telling and watching, but the result can only be explained as fate.

A girlfriend is someone who writes your name in a dark blue and light blue diary.

A girlfriend is someone you can't see in a day, just like the one without ribs.

A girlfriend is someone you rack your brains to please.

A girlfriend is someone who makes you feel the sunshine illuminating your eyelashes when you are exhausted.

A girlfriend is someone you say you don't care about. Seeing her with other boys always makes you uncomfortable.

A girlfriend is the one who tells you to give up your man's airs and bury your head in her warm chest.

No matter where you go, your girlfriend is the kind of person whose love can't fade away. Her lips are always warm, all her happiness, all her sadness, all her tears and laughter.

The university campus is really a good place to fall in love. Looking around, lovers kiss sweetly. Moreover, they may have never known each other before, and they don't know when they suddenly had feelings, so they started talking and thought it was an incredible and mysterious thing. So how many boys and girls fell in love, unable and unwilling to extricate themselves, and how many human tragedies and comedies were staged.

However, there are many girls and boys on campus, and there are probably only a few boys who can really fall in love. So a boy chased a girl. As for how to pursue the law, it varies from person to person and there is no conclusion. I believe this is also a problem that many boys are very concerned about.

Here I would like to make some suggestions for your reference.

1. Don't say anything until it's ripe. Some boys have only dated people a few times, and then they propose to establish a "further" relationship. Nine times out of ten, they will muddy the soup. The beauty of love is that you don't have to say anything. Clear, clear, but not beautiful. Originally, people were willing to come out and talk to you alone, indicating that girls have a good impression on you. But sometimes you can't even say it yourself, but you are eager to point it out and destroy this hazy beauty, so don't blame others for staying away. Look around at the love that died before it started. Many of them are caused by boys not mastering the temperature.

2. Put away your fist for a better attack. What if the girl refuses? Some people say that we should pursue hard and persevere. Actually, it is not. Unless you are a person who doesn't care about anything, it is hard for you to bear the dirty eyes of girls and the mocking eyes of peers. Why don't you stop and take a break? This not only protects your dignity, but also leaves a way out, thus creating opportunities for future counterattacks. Let her wander in the crowd. When she hits a wall, go to her again, and she will realize that you are the one who loves her most. Even if you really can't give up, you should pay attention to the ways and means to find her. Don't let her find you annoying. This is usually difficult to do.

3. Don't be too explicit. Learn to care about her silently and treat her with your honesty and kindness. Only in this way can you get her attention among a large group of boys screaming around her. Remember, only special you will attract her special attention.

Please don't go in unless you have to. A boy who always runs to the girls' dormitory will not attract girls too much affection. Some student union cadres often run to the girls' dormitory under the pretext of work, and then stay there all the time, which brings a lot of inconvenience to others and the effect will only be counterproductive. The root cause of this result is still too explicit.

5. Despise strategically ... and attach importance to tactically ... Sometimes the girl you like will have some contact with you, such as talking, chatting, working together and so on. You'd better look at these things with a normal heart, and don't have a burden, you'd better suffer from loss. For example, don't pay too much attention to what she casually says. Some boys are easy to be romantic, which is the reason. However, we should pay enough attention to every such opportunity. For example, the first conversation should pay attention to discretion, and it is best not to involve the scope of love. Let's talk about childhood. If you only go to the main body, it will be bad! Girls should be wary of you like wolves.

6. It's best to kiss up less. You praised her for her beauty. If she is really beautiful, then you are only the 700th person to praise her beauty, and the person who impressed her most is probably the first person to praise her like this. If she is plain-looking, there is no telling what will happen if you praise her like this. If she finds out you're not sincere, you're dead. Remember, you can only coax a girl after she becomes your girlfriend. Before catching up with her, you didn't master the performance of the temperature.

7. Less male chauvinism. A boy finally invited a girl he had admired for a long time to dinner, which cost him half a month's living expenses. Later, when he went to pay the bill, he found that the girl had already paid the bill for him and he wanted to pay her back. Girls don't want to. He was angry that the girl stripped him of his face. The girl cried with anger. Girls pay for him, which shows that they have a good impression on him. He lost his temper instead of trying to please him. No wonder he is going to be single. Few girls will have a good impression on boys who don't respect women, remember! Remember! .

8. unite with the majority. Almost every girl has one or two closest girlfriends. When everything else is blocked, they are your road to success. You can know whether girls are interested in you through them, and you can also convey your meaning through them. This is much better than what you said directly. Don't ignore this new force. I have seen the boy succeed in this way more than once.

Finally, I want to remind you that there is never a fixed formula for love. The way others succeed may be your failure; The way others fail may be just your beauty. I'm only talking about principles here, not copying them mechanically. If it ruins your good deeds, don't come to me. If a girl doesn't like you, even the Jade Emperor can't help it. As the ancients said, it is the best policy to defeat the enemy without fighting.

A preliminary study of the art of conversation should be the most important one among many actions to pursue girls. The conversation covers a wide range, including talking to the girl herself, talking to her colleagues and classmates, talking to potential competitors, talking to her family and so on. If you want to achieve good results, you should pay attention to the art of conversation. In this sense, exploring the art of conversation can be said to be a basic skill of enthusiastic people, and it is also conducive to enhancing understanding and improving stability and unity. This paper makes some superficial explorations on how to talk with girls, in order to get criticism and guidance from all the love experts and colleagues, in order to push the love story to a new level and make the love work more perfect. Let's discuss the types of conversation, the preparation before conversation, the forms and means of conversation, and the quality of boys.

First of all, the type of conversation:

(1) Gentleman talk: (generally applicable to girls who are a little aloof and reserved) The so-called gentleman talk, as the name implies, refers to treating yourself as a famous gentleman and treating the object of conversation as a matching lady. When talking, the two sides are in a completely equal position and have a heart-to-heart conversation. The core of a gentleman's speech is to pay attention to the word "truth". Use true feelings for girls, and exchange true feelings for true feelings. Sincere feelings can have a wide and lasting impact on girls' hearts, and even play a very important role in the formation of girls' chastity concept and the casting of moral quality for a long time. Of course, the gentleman's talk should have a purpose, that is, to help girls raise their awareness and realize that a real gentleman is firm and hard to find in a thousand years. The form of conversation can be casual and very relaxed, avoiding "the dignity of the monarch" and a reprimanded face. When talking, the topic is free, and the starting point of conversation can often start from trivial matters of life. Choose a topic that everyone is interested in. Don't think this is small talk and killing time. In fact, it is to exchange ideas and show people the way. Generally speaking, when a boy talks to a girl, from the girl's point of view, if he likes him very much, he will inevitably be a little nervous. If you don't like him very much or like him very much, you will inevitably be a little rebellious and annoying. If you are in this state of mind, the girl's heart is often closed, and the conversation is often coping, so it is difficult to understand the girl's real thoughts. Taking a gentleman's way of talking can greatly improve trust and shorten the distance between them. After a long time, there will naturally be more topics. Once such a conversation atmosphere is formed, when girls feel that a boy is their trusted friend, they will open their hearts and pour out their hearts. At this time, boys can take advantage of the situation and talk is often the best. The key to gentleman-style conversation is that boys should show concern and help to girls in the conversation, which is mainly manifested in respecting girls' personality and making girls feel respected. Secondly, boys should support girls' creation. The little girl has active thinking and wide interests. When they tell you their hobbies, boys must not be indifferent and uninterested, but must affirm them, help them make suggestions and develop their personality. Don't be too jealous even if they tell you that you have another love. You should continue to stand at a higher angle and look at her feelings from a global perspective. In addition, boys should show sympathy, understanding and try their best to help girls in trouble. Conversations between friends should be bilateral. Boys should also open their hearts and "confess" to girls, so that girls can know their experiences, hobbies, interests and troubles. In a free conversation. There are two functions here. First, let girls feel that you treat her as a friend and say everything; Second, you can show yourself in the conversation, so that girls can be subtly educated.

(2) Complimentary conversation: (generally applicable to girls who like each other better)

Praise talk is the most commonly used means for boys. This kind of conversation is generally more relaxed, because the interviewee has no resistance. Nevertheless, compliments should be artistic. First, we must pay attention to pertinence. The so-called pertinence means that this kind of conversation varies from person to person and from time to time. As an educational means to encourage girls, praise must proceed from the actual needs and the reality of girls. Targeting must be strong. The second is to pay attention to timeliness. Compliments should be timely, so that girls can feel that you care about her, understand her and support her. And to do this, the key is to understand girls. Boys should always go deep into the grassroots and mingle with girls. Journalists should also have professional sensitivity and be good at finding the bright spots in girls, even in small places. Timely praise and affirmation of their achievements and progress can often have unexpected effects. Third, we should pay attention to balance. After all, people's social attributes are greater than their natural attributes. Praise for a girl often has an impact on society. A girl's bright spot will be publicly praised if she has a broad mass base and can be accepted by everyone. If she doesn't have such a background, she can be praised through individual conversations. Pay attention to the effect of the conversation and avoid randomness when praising the conversation. As a pursuer of love, a boy's words and deeds will have an impact on love. What he praises will produce a kind of orientation, which is related to the formation of personal style Therefore, if praise is improper, the effect will often be counterproductive, and praise is too exaggerated, which will damage your image invisibly. So pay attention to balance. Fourth, we should pay attention to modesty. The so-called modesty means that when boys use praise dialogue, they should put themselves in a correct position and put themselves and girls on an equal footing. When praising, we should show the modality of learning from these girls and the attitude of learning from these praised girls. Therefore, when having a complimentary conversation, boys' language and attitude should be enthusiastic.

(3) critical conversation: (generally applicable to girls who have already appreciated each other very much)

Critical conversation is also a common form of boy conversation. Its purpose is to correct mistakes and point out some shortcomings and mistakes of girls. By the way, let your glorious image be higher and fuller. Because girls often don't know enough about their own behavior deviation, they produce resistance, or sophistry, or cover up, or silence, or refute, which increases the difficulty of conversation. Therefore, critical conversation should pay more attention to the artistry of conversation. The Art of Critical Conversation

First, the atmosphere of the phone-girls are more relaxed and emotional at night. So the effect at this time is better than during the day. It's best to talk about some interesting things while playing her favorite music.

Travel phone-when you travel, you must call her and say "I hope to travel with you" or "I will bring you a gift" What do you want? "and so on.

Third, condolence phone-when the other person is sick, call her as soon as possible and comfort her with a cheerful tone, but don't make her too tired and talk for too long.

Fourth, talk on the phone-when you miss her, you might as well tell her directly. When you encounter happy or unhappy things, you can share them with each other. The other person will think that she is your first thought.

Say what she likes best.

Happy birthday, I hope you are beautiful every day.

Second, your voice is really beautiful. ...

I just want to hear your voice. Only when I hear your voice can my heart calm down.

I miss you day and night. Have you been thinking about me?

5. Remember? How many intoxicating nights we spent in the warm moonlight.

It's getting colder and colder. You should be careful not to catch a cold. ...

7. Your sweet smile and affectionate look back made me unforgettable.

It's hard to miss you. When is the wedding day?

As the saying goes, "a girl's heart is a needle in the sea." In fact, what girls say is often full of twists and turns. It will be a big mistake to understand things only from the surface of words in communication with girls, so you must be more careful and be good at seeing things from the opposite side of girls' words. Remember, it is a girl's specialty to express a certain meaning through the connotation of language. This requires boys to have three skills:

One: In the process of meeting a girl, you should know her real intention according to what the girl talked at that time and the way she talked to you. Finn is a famous lady who lives cautiously and never accepts invitations from boys casually. Colleague Xiong decided to knock her heart with full enthusiasm and true feelings. When he first invited Finn to the movies, he looked sorry and said to him, "No, I have to go home 10 every night." But the bear didn't flinch and finally succeeded in inviting his beloved girl. The secret is that bears are good at observing colors and thinking about emotions. In fact, when you get along with a girl, if she is always absent-minded, perfunctory, or talks to you with a dull and boring expression, especially when it comes to love-related topics, she always turns away quickly, which shows that she is indifferent to your feelings, so you should go away. On the contrary, if she often talks to you with attachment and excitement, it means that she has a good impression on you and is very happy with you. I hope to get along with you and develop our friendship. The above example shows that if Finn really refuses him, he will coldly say, "I have something to do, so I won't accompany you!" " "But Finn's eyes are not cold, there seems to be a kind of expectation. Finn didn't obviously refuse, indicating that her refusal contained some hint. Finn said that she must go home at 10, which means that she can still accept the invitation of the bear as long as he sends her home before 10. It's that simple.

Two: It is often said that "love is like a battlefield", and boys should be well versed in the truth that "all is fair in war". For girls' language, we should use a little reverse thinking method in time to make an irony correct. In this way, you can successfully "capture" the girl's heart in love. Some girls often call or write to their boyfriends and say, "I'm too busy recently, and I really can't see you." "I want to travel alone and relax, so I can't see you recently." If you believe it, you are a fool. If she is really so busy, how can she have time to call or write to complain to you? In fact, girls always like their boyfriends to pay attention to and care about her in love. So many girls tell their boyfriends that she is busy when they are bored, and tell you that she can't see you because she has too many dates when she has no other appointments. Her real intention is to attract your attention in this way. If you really believe her and think it is considerate of her, say to her, "Since you are so busy, let's talk about it later." This can only cause girls' disappointment. In this case, if you say so, you will definitely win the girl's heart. "Really so busy? Can't you spare some time to see me? " "Although you are so busy, you must come to the appointment tomorrow, even if it is half an hour." Remember: in this case, the real intention of the girl is: "Although I am very busy, if you ask me out, I can still make time for the appointment." A girl thinks that if you love her deeply, you won't care how busy she is and ask her out on a date.

To listen and taste in love, boys should grasp the implication of a girl according to her tone in conversation. When Ping came home from work, she saw Hao (not Hao) walking in front of her. She got off the bus and asked excitedly, "Why didn't you ride a bike?" "I want to go by myself!" Hao was very excited and answered with a smile. "You are really unpredictable." Ping glanced at it and said. Hao sensitively realized something: "We are pushing the car slowly. Isn't this a wonderful picture?" Here, Ping said, "It's really unpredictable." In fact, this means that she has already felt the charm of Hao. Because men's unfathomable is also a kind of charm. When Ping knows better than her friends, she will feel the attraction of Hao to her. It was two times that Hao walked in the street, and with a soft and trembling voice, he tasted the lingering sound of "You are really unpredictable" and responded. In the world of love, there are many ways to guess a girl's heart. The key is that you should observe more, pay more attention, accumulate more experience, and master more certain skills, so that you will realize your infinite interest in yet I feel and the heartbeat of a unicorn in harmony with the girl. As the saying goes, "a girl's heart is a needle in the sea." In fact, what girls say is often full of twists and turns. It will be a big mistake to understand things only from the surface of words in communication with girls, so you must be more careful and be good at seeing things from the opposite side of girls' words. Remember, it is a girl's specialty to express a certain meaning through the connotation of language. This requires boys to have three skills.