What is the engagement custom in Zaozhuang? Urgent!

Zaozhuang engagement is commonly known as "engagement".

Once they agree to get married, both men and women will first issue an "engagement letter", that is, a small red paper sticker of the man's proposal, commonly known as the "engagement letter". Generally speaking, there is no need to send a "general book" as a gift. The man takes poultry, wine, candy, cloth and silk, and jewelry as the bride price. The woman returned to Four Treasures of the Study, shoes and socks.

After the "Shu Tong" is issued, an engagement will be formally signed, commonly known as "April Deed" or "Chuan Deed". On the same day, the two sides of the ceremony hosted a banquet for the matchmaker, breakfast for men and luncheon for women. After the "Apocalypse", it means that the engagement is officially effective and has legal effect.

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Zaozhuang is the hometown of Confucius and Mencius, and the wedding etiquette is quite grand. The engagement of men and women needs to go through several aspects, such as proposal, engagement, signing engagement, and choosing a date to get married, as follows:

1, propose. Before engagement, the matchmaker needs to take the man to the woman's house in advance, propose marriage and pay attention to the matchmaker's words and parents' life.

2. Engagement letter. Once they agree to get married, both men and women will first issue an "engagement letter", that is, a small red paper sticker of the man's proposal, commonly known as the "engagement letter". Generally speaking, there is no need to send a "general book" as a gift. The man takes poultry, wine, candy, cloth and silk, and jewelry as the bride price. The woman returned to Four Treasures of the Study, shoes and socks.

3. Sign an engagement. After the "Shu Tong" is issued, an engagement will be formally signed, commonly known as "April Deed" or "Chuan Deed". The ceremony was even more grand. Both of them hosted a matchmaker, a brunch for men and a luncheon for women on the same day. After the "Apocalypse", it means that the engagement is officially effective and has legal effect.