My girlfriend is superstitious and says she wants to use my birthday to calculate the eight characters with her. I'm afraid I won't agree with her. What should I do?

My first suggestion is to let her read books about constellations and reduce her China superstition. ...

When you calculate the horoscope, you must let her look at that person and make sure that that person is really a fortune teller, not a liar! Real fortune tellers have professional ethics, which is very important! Such people can't be bad elements! You must go with her. No matter how you measure it, you should tell her your love, and tell her that people who meet the eight characters may not love her as much as you do. Feelings are not controlled by eight characters, and so on. So she won't be too rude. ...

I'm sorry, after all, this kind of thing is hard to change as long as you believe it. I can only give you a compromise.

Good luck!