Jiamusi Marriage Custom and the Detailed Process of Marriage

In fact, the customs of every place are different, which has a lot to do with people, environment, culture, climate and people's origins in the United States. This is why China is so big that every place has its own customs. Let's take a look at the wedding customs in Heilongjiang.

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Engagement letter: A letter from a man and a woman formally concluding an engagement. Use it when you are lucky.

Book: Gift book, that is, gift list, records the types and quantities of gifts in detail. Used for collection.

Marriage book: A book about marrying the bride. Used when picking up the bride on the wedding day.

Nacai: Choosing a woman for the first wedding in ancient times was called Nacai by inviting a matchmaker. Now it's called marriage proposal.

Seeking a name: the man asks the woman's name and birthday time, which is called divination seeking a name. Now it is called the son of the river.

Najib: If you ask the name Geely, the matchmaker's little gift is Najib, and now it's Guo or Guo.

Please make an appointment: the man's family asks the fortune teller to choose a date, which is called an appointment. Also known as begging for a date, it is now called choosing a date.

Bed installation

Move the new bed to the right place a few days before the wedding. Before the wedding, a good wife is responsible for making the bed, covering it with mattresses, sheets, dragons and phoenixes, and sprinkling all kinds of happy fruits. After the bed is made, no one is allowed to enter the new house or touch the new bed before the newlyweds enter the house on their wedding night. On the wedding night, when the couple enters the new house, they can let the children eat happy fruit in bed. This is called pressing the bed, which means taking the son's meaning. In ancient times, people thought that if they didn't get married, it would bring more trouble to couples. It doesn't cause trouble, and it can ward off evil spirits for newlyweds and make them have good luck after marriage.

wedding feast

The bride should be taken out by her sister or maid of honor, given to her father, and then given to the groom for a formal ceremony. Newcomers worship heaven and earth first, then their ancestors. The bride prepared two gifts, Wei Wangjin and a room full of them, and gave them to her aunt after passing the door. In fact, these customs are all to give the bride and groom a good omen, and they are all efforts and preparations to make their future marriage life happier.