Some people say that early marriage is a grave dug by women themselves. Where do you start?

With the development of society, there are more and more independent women. Because they have enough financial ability, most of these girls marry late and have children late, and some girls get married early. So why do women dig their own graves when they marry early?

No matter what family circumstances, every girl is a little princess in the hands of her parents at home. At home, they don't have to cook or clean, and their parents solve their unhappy problems and live a carefree life. In the eyes of parents, no matter how big the children are, they are all children. Once a woman marries early, she is no longer a child. They have endless housework, endless housework, and they have to run around for money, rice, oil and salt. Moreover, marriage is not a matter for two people, but a matter for two families, especially girls whose in-laws live together. There is nothing they can do at home. After marriage, it is inevitable to be picky by in-laws and dislike the east and the west. After a long time, the contradiction came out. And those who promise to take care of you for a lifetime have long passed that sweet-talking age and started swearing at you under the pressure of life. The girl who got married early has experienced the baptism of life, her eyes are no longer naive and happy, leaving behind all kinds of feelings about life.

When a woman gets married, she will face the problem of having children. Not long after her marriage, your parents-in-law may urge you to have children. However, the world of two people after marriage that your husband promised you before marriage has long since ceased to exist, leaving only her husband's complaints and the pressure of her parents-in-law. Do you think the task is finished after giving birth? No, this is just the beginning. After giving birth, you are the one who gets up in the middle of the night to nurse. The child has a high fever and is ill. You are the most worried person, and you are also the one who complains the most. When others are children, you have become their mother every day.

I really don't advocate early marriage for girls. If you think you have really met the right person, you must enjoy a few years of love and get ready to get married. Ask for praise.