Daley's Life as a Writer

In Henan, Dai Lai lived a relatively closed life, with few frequent friends, and he wrote nothing. She still likes her present life anyway. Maybe not, but get used to it. She habitually told a joke: men can't find a girlfriend, so they have no choice but to tell fortune. Fortune teller: You are doomed to have no women in the first half of your life. The man's eyes lit up: what about the second half? The fortune teller said, you'll get used to it later. Sometimes she jokes with her husband: I dedicated my youth to you. When we are old, we must go back to Suzhou to settle down. You should dedicate the rest of your life to me.

1995, Dai came to Henan, and spent most of his time in a place called Xinxiang, Henan, staying honestly. Later, he came to Beijing in the name of learning and worked as a visiting scholar in the Institute of Literature of China Academy of Social Sciences for one year. Her life experience is particularly simple, basically living her own life and not dealing with the outside world. She said: "I always feel that whether writing or living, having a good attitude and a down-to-earth life is more important than anything else."

However, her popularity is surprisingly good. The writer Jing Ge relishes Dai Lai's cleverness. He said: "She is definitely not a chatterbox. She speaks weakly and slowly. However, she is witty. Her humor is obviously original, so it is always fresh and full of energy. In my opinion, her popularity is also very good, and she looks very broad-minded. " On April 28th, 2008, Dai Lai was writing a short story to be published in the July 2008 issue of The Writer, which is of special significance to Dai Lai. In addition, she prepared a long story about a historian's life. This is a Don Quixote figure, and questioning a period of history made him spend most of his life exploring the so-called truth. For the new novel, Dai Lai felt that he didn't know how to summarize it. It is probably a story of seeking, and an ideal finally falls in front of reality.

Beneath his bones, Dai Lai is a frank person who came to the Central Plains. At this point, he fits in well with this place. But at the same time, she is a lazy person, longing for a leisurely life, so at this point, she is more like a Suzhou person. "Every time I go back to Suzhou, I feel that Suzhou is really good, really good, but more often I just think about it. I am deeply immersed in the inertia of life, and I am afraid of the change of life, perhaps because I am afraid of facing complicated specific operating procedures. Some processes are simulated in your mind, and you are already sweating. However, now that my parents are old, I will often go home to see them in the future. "