My boyfriend and I have a good relationship, but there have been many contradictions recently. Family members don't agree to contact, but none of us can live without each other. I heard from a friend

My boyfriend and I have a good relationship, but there have been many contradictions recently. Family members don't agree to contact, but none of us can live without each other. I heard from a friend that there was an account. Hello, landlord. Our situation is somewhat similar. He and I once loved each other deeply, and we couldn't live without each other. He is willing to listen to me in order to be by my side. In order to be by his side, I gave in to my bottom line again and again. He took good care of me and held me in his hand. Although I am willful, I always think of him.

However, the family did not agree. We talked for more than two years and fell in love for more than four years. I thought I would grow old with him, too. I also want to marry him willfully. After all, loving each other is our business. However, marriage is not a matter for two people, but a matter for two families. Most marriages that parents disagree with are tragedies. For me, I just feel that I have been willful for too many years, which has worried my parents for a long time. If I can't get married, I'll worry them again. So I broke up crying.

It's been more than a year since we broke up, and we've been hiding in the quilt and crying every night for months. Sometimes it really hurts. I secretly bought a pack of cigarettes and smoked when the pain was unbearable.

In fact, he is not much better. We contacted once, and he said that he had a phobia of love, didn't want to talk about it, and wouldn't get married in recent years. Like you're promising me something. I have always been single. But six months later, he made a deal and was going to get married soon. And I know that the news almost collapsed. But it was also from this relationship.

Landlord, people say that tearing down ten temples is better than ruining a marriage. I'm not suggesting you break up. I am just telling you my own experience. You should think about how to choose yourself. But what I want to tell you is that when we are together, no one can live without anyone, but when we are forcibly separated, in fact, no one can live without anyone. Pain for a while doesn't mean you can't live without each other. Besides, marriage is a matter for two families, not two people. I'll know this when I get married.

Finally, I wish the landlord a good home. Happy every day!