Why should people in love avoid suspicion?

First of all, the consciousness of avoiding suspicion in love comes from China's ancient cultural tradition. The norms of marriage and sexual behavior in ancient society were very strict, which not only restricted the behavior of young men and women, but also included the marriage law between families. Therefore, in order to avoid suspicion, people in love are first influenced by traditional culture and have a certain understanding of social norms. Secondly, the values such as "etiquette culture" and "golden mean" advocated in traditional culture emphasize the relationship between personal behavior and social harmony, while love is an expression of personal feelings, which must be carried out within a moderate range and must not be deviant.

Secondly, the avoidance of suspicion in love is also related to the laws, regulations and moral concepts of contemporary society. In modern China society, basic moral qualities such as civilization, courtesy, harmony, honesty and law-abiding are strongly advocated, and personal freedom and rights are protected by law, while personal responsibility is also emphasized. People in love should respect others, do not invade their privacy, do not visit others, do not peek into their privacy, and do not engage in immoral behavior. In other words, avoid making negative behaviors and not being questioned, guessed or accused by others. Respecting other people's opinions is also self-esteem.

At the same time, people in love are required to avoid suspicion, which is also closely related to personal social impression and career development. In modern society, people will pay attention to a person's moral quality and social image. A person who doesn't abide by public morality, whose bad habits are harmful to the world and who is selfish and unprincipled is unpopular, and his social evaluation is negative. Therefore, people in love should know how to respect others, protect their image and moral quality, and don't do inappropriate things to protect their reputation and status in the circle of friends and colleagues.

In short, people in love should always keep in mind the important requirement of "avoiding suspicion", respect the norms of traditional culture and modern society, and pay attention to ways and means in emotional expression so as not to bring adverse effects to themselves and others. Only with high moral quality can we succeed in interpersonal relationship and career development.