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Love can be divided into four stages: 1, first love. Just entering the love stage, I don't know much about it, but I still have a certain sense of ambiguity. 2. Love. Both parties in love see each other's advantages and are indifferent to the surrounding environment. It can be said that both sides are in love. 3. attachment. Both sides can't live without each other in daily life, and they will feel unhappy and uneasy when they leave for a period of time. 4, dull. Both parties in love have calmed down, and most of the rest are rational, but they lack passion. They need further reasons to ignite the flame of love, such as getting married. Many couples have not finished this link. Of course, completing this link means the next step into the marriage stage.

1. egocentric psychology People with this mentality only ask their lovers to revolve around themselves, listen to their own words, serve themselves and cater to their individual needs, regardless of each other's needs, interests, hobbies and values. So it is difficult to get the love of the opposite sex. People with this mentality can only say that they have the basic conditions for successful love if they change their values and learn to care and respect others. Second, the pursuit of perfection Some people idealize their lovers too much and set the standard too high, which is beyond the practical possibility. This greatly narrows the scope of mate selection and reduces the success rate of love. Especially for older young people, the psychology of seeking perfection is more prominent, and the result is repeated mistakes. It is not too late for people with this mentality to return to reality from idealization and adjust the criteria for mate selection in time. Third, people with inferiority complex are not necessarily in poor condition. Some of them are due to physical defects or professional reasons or some mistakes. Inferiority makes individuals isolated and isolated, unwilling to appear in public and unwilling to associate with the opposite sex. When you meet the ideal opposite sex, you lose the opportunity because you are afraid that the other person will look down on you and dare not pursue it boldly. People with this mentality should cheer up and establish a self-confidence and self-improvement mentality. Fourth, herd mentality. People with this mentality show a lack of opinion about lovers. When others say yes, they feel proud; When others say no, they feel unhappy, and often go with the flow and ruin their love. It is good for people with this mentality to discuss extensively, but they should carefully analyze and judge and make up their own minds. Men with this mentality not only think that men are better than women, but women also think that men should be better than women. Women require men's status and education to be higher than themselves, but when men's status and education are lower than women's, they have no courage to pursue women. This is a remnant of the patriarchal ideology in feudal society, and some young men and women are consciously bound by this concept. The key to overcome this kind of psychology is that young men and women should really understand the true meaning of love and establish the idea of equality between men and women. 6. Superstition psychology Due to the influence of feudal superstitions, some people pray to God and worship Buddha for marriage, which hinders the establishment and development of young men and women's love relationship and even leads to misfortune. People with this mentality should establish scientific concepts and eliminate the influence of ignorance and heresy.