In-laws want to have grandchildren, but the burden at home is already great. What should I do?

In fact, this kind of problem is quite common in our life. After marriage, because the family is not stable, we still have a lot of work to do, so we are not ready to have children, but our parents-in-law are eager for their children, so I hope we can have children as soon as possible. Faced with this problem, many people are at a loss and don't know how to deal with it. In fact, communication is the most effective way to deal with this problem.

First of all, we must understand the thoughts of the elderly. There is nothing wrong with their ideas. No matter which family, the old people in the family certainly hope that their children will have children as soon as possible, so that they can spend more years with their children and cultivate feelings with them. After all, people are getting older and worse, and the elderly just want to spend more years with their children when they are healthy, so their ideas are not wrong.

Secondly, if we want to solve this problem, we can actually explain our thoughts to our husband and tell him that we feel that the burden at home is too great now, so in order to alleviate the pressure at home, we hope to have children in the future, and hope that our boyfriend's parents will not rush us and wait until the family is stable. At the same time, you two should also try to change the quality problems in your life, change all kinds of burdens in your life, and meet the wishes of the elderly as soon as possible.

Therefore, in the face of this problem, we must understand the old people's ideas, and at the same time we must find ways to change the family. Let the family no longer have a burden, and let the wishes of the old people be satisfied as soon as possible.