What can't be done during filial piety?

First, the dutiful son doesn't welcome guests or see him off.

No matter how important the condolence guests are, as a dutiful son of the main family, we must be careful not to be polite and go to see them off before leaving. This is also a taboo.

According to rural folklore, a dutiful son is a person who pays great attention to filial piety. If you send a guest away, you will give your bad luck to others. So exquisite guests, seeing a host who doesn't know the routine, will say "no" very firmly. If the guests are determined not to let you send them, you will not be sensible to send them, and even if you care about these guests, your face will not look good.

Second, filial people don't visit.

In Axi's hometown and countryside, this is taboo. People with filial piety, it is best to stay at home if nothing happens, and don't go out to visit. Especially don't visit other people's homes.

If you really need someone, you can only stay outside the door and leave quickly. Thousands of people have a gift, really enter the door, and even enter the house and sit down. In this case, everything is going well at home, and if there is anything bad, I'm afraid this hatred will be formed.

Third, filial people don't attend happy events and birthday banquets.

No matter how good a friend is, you should also know that when someone sends you an invitation, it is actually a guest's affection. I don't want you to go in my heart, for fear that you will be in trouble.

You must never think, "Why don't we be such good friends and go to the wedding?" It is the greatest kindness not to go when you are filial. Even if your friends don't care, their families will know.

1, behaviorally

Show sadness to your elders, don't wear makeup, and don't be too happy. Men can't cut their hair, and women can't do it. We can't have any happy events at home. Everything should be simple.

2. Where to go

During your stay in Dai Xiao, you can't go out to visit relatives and friends, especially during festivals. You can't go in and out of the temple, and you can't attend parties.

Step 3 dress up

Above the clothes, don't wear too bright clothes, wear plain clothes, keep a low profile, be restrained and speak quietly. You can't live a married life. But now there is not much stress, which was taboo in ancient times.

What can't be done on May 7th:

The main thing is not to be happy. If you are happy, others will think that you are happy because someone in your family died.

Pay attention to burning paper during the May 7th period, but pay attention to the method of burning. For example, you can't poke it with a stick when you burn it, lest the money be taken away by ghosts and gods. The living should kneel down and pray for their dead relatives. Don't say wish when burning paper. If you do, the spirit of the dead will always follow you.