Wei Zi quarreled with her mother-in-law

You can take the initiative to apologize after quarreling with your mother-in-law, but you must find out whose problem it is, and don't blindly compromise with each other. I chose to apologize because my mother-in-law is my elder, and the younger generation should apologize, but I should also have a good talk with my mother-in-law after apologizing. First, reflect on why you quarrel with your mother-in-law. If it is your own problem, you should apologize to the other party, and apologize in the most sincere way, so that the other party can feel your sincerity.

As a mistress, he not only refuses to admit his mistake, but also quarrels with the other party, which directly hurts his mother-in-law's heart and may also cause his wife to be very angry. So at this time, we must have a correct attitude, not only to apologize to our mother-in-law, but also to our wife. Solve the contradiction between the two in the most correct way. Only in this way can the family become more harmonious, and only in this way can the mother-in-law completely relax.

If this is the mother-in-law's fault, you can also choose to apologize first and wait until the mother-in-law calms down before communicating with her. Because the mother-in-law must be a reasonable person, so as long as she has a correct attitude, the other party can know what attitude to use to correct her mistakes. Because the younger generation still has to retire to the older generation at the right time, it will be difficult for the wife to stay in the middle.

You can choose to talk with your wife and mother-in-law, admit your mistake first and tell the other party not to quarrel with her. Then let the wife reconcile from one side, lead to the reasons for the quarrel between the two sides, and let the wife and mother-in-law have a good talk, and then they can help each other. Treating the elderly with a soft attitude is the most effective way of communication. Only by lowering your posture first can you make the other party recognize what you said.