Hu Ziwei said to Dong Lu.

It is not good for couples, couples, men to take care of women, or women to look at men too tightly. Because the relationship between husband and wife should be equal, there is no question of who cares who. We are all adults, what we want is a love between men and women, not to find a father or mother for ourselves. If one party in a relationship is always giving orders to the other party, it will cause the other party to resist sooner or later, and maybe a relationship will end.

First of all, what I want to say is that men don't need to be in charge. Because he is an adult male, not a child of three or five years old. You have to look after the child, because he may still walk unsteadily. If you don't look, he may bump into it. But your boyfriend or husband is already an independent actor. What are such a big man looking at? If you stare at someone so tightly, it will probably make him feel deprived of his freedom and he will gradually be afraid to be with you.

Seeing each other too close sometimes hurts their self-esteem, especially in front of outsiders, which makes them feel more embarrassed. He picked up a cigarette and you said no, and confiscated his lighter; He picked up the wine and you said no drinking, and took his glass; He picked up his mobile phone and was ready to open the game. You grabbed it and said no playing. Although you may really do it for his own good, it's really unnecessary. As long as he is not addicted to cigarettes, drinking is just drinking, and the game is not played from morning till night, you can give him the right to be a normal adult.

There are always some men hiding private money everywhere. Because you want more money from your wife, you have to look at her face and accept her questioning. Aren't you tired of living like this? Why doesn't an adult even have the right to control income? If you are just worried that a man will go bad when he gets rich, it is really unnecessary, because even if you give him an extra hundred, what can he do with the money? So, you don't have to live a life where you can catch me, which will not only make your man tired, but also make you more tired.