The water drops lift up.

A few days ago, I saw a fellow villager in the same village send a water drop on WeChat. I clicked in and saw that it was sent by one of my junior high school classmates.

It turned out that her mother found out that she had Parkinson's disease some time ago. After the treatment, she spent 50 thousand yuan, and the follow-up operation needs 250 thousand yuan. As a last resort, she had to turn to everyone for help.

I clicked on the donation page, wanted to do my part, thought of something, and decided to reconsider! Before, even people I didn't know would donate a dozen or twenty dollars. After a year or two, I found it was not that simple.

Last year, I had a classmate whose father suffered from heart failure and needed bypass surgery to raise money from the Water Drop Fund. Although I didn't know her very well at school, I donated money out of my classmates' affection and kindly helped her spread it around. She was probably thanking me, so we added WeChat. Only after chatting did I know that her father's family just bought a house in our town, with four rooms and two halls. We also know where they bought it, but it costs 200 thousand anyway Moreover, the general family conditions in our town are all bought by three rooms and two halls. She said that she also bought a car with her husband, and she was preparing for her driver's license test. She also explained that she drove home in 2008 and invited me to her house to play.

Later, when I looked at her circle of friends, I found that she was sending photos of herself playing for nearly half a year, and there were all kinds of eyebrows and nails. Life is colorful! I don't see any signs of poverty at all! Compared with her, it takes half a day to buy a fruit, which makes me feel much better in the price drop. By contrast, my living standard is inferior to hers. I remember feeling sorry for what happened to her not long ago. I really should feel sorry for myself compared with IQ.

Of course, I didn't go to her house to play after I went back. After meeting and chatting, I feel that I can't catch up with her in all aspects, and there is nothing to say.

Tell me more about this classmate this time! Although I haven't contacted her in recent years, I wonder if she has changed anything. But I remember when we just graduated from junior high school, when the technical school organized students to work in the summer. They are all from the countryside, and we don't have much money just out of society. At that time, I only dared to buy steamed bread for breakfast, and I didn't dare to look at other fruits except discounted ones. My classmates can buy whatever they want. It won't be long before his family's money runs out. Then I borrowed it from my teacher. I borrowed money from my teacher several times a week before I went to work, and then I borrowed it once. Later, I really couldn't stand the pain, and I went home after working for more than ten days. I never mentioned the money I borrowed and never paid it back.

I find that I cannot understand some young people nowadays more and more. They spend money like water and have no sense of risk. With the mentality of drinking today and getting drunk today, I also found myself a noble theory of life, which is euphemistically called: "I don't know which comes first, the accident or the risk, but take advantage of the present." I'm not afraid of getting sick. Anyway, there is medical insurance for minor illnesses, and money can be raised for serious illnesses. "

Therefore, unrestrained consumption has become a concept in today's society. When a family member is seriously ill, it is often those who have a good life who "raise money easily", while those who donate are those who are usually thrifty and unwilling to spend money. Because they know the hardships of life and the helplessness of having no money to see a doctor!

One side is in trouble, and all sides support it', which is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation! While bringing warmth to the poor families in Qian Qian, the "water drop fund" also gives many people who want to get something for nothing an opportunity!

Open this classmate's fundraising record and find that there are many fewer people donating now. I remember that a few years ago, hundreds of thousands of fund-raising could raise1200 thousand, and now it is 20 thousand from fund-raising to the end. It seems that many people also understand the issue! Look at the relatives and friends who helped forward it. Several nieces of direct blood relatives donated 20 yuan. I don't know if my relatives know the details, so I don't donate much, and then I will forward it to people who don't know the situation to donate!

I think, as our generation, it's time to take a good look at the road under our feet.

There are old people in the world and little people at the bottom. It is no longer the time to eat alone and the whole family is not hungry. You can't just look at the immediate enjoyment, but store more ability to take risks for your family. Don't expect to make much contribution to society, at least don't wait for your parents to get sick when they are old.

In the meantime, I think? Caring is a good thing, but what we are facing is' easy to raise money', and whether to donate depends on the situation. Money should be donated to people who need it more!