My husband bought me a self-defense device and said that he loved me and was afraid that I would sleep with another man. Does he really care about me?

Masturbator is a sex toy, and its uses include masturbation and sexual intercourse. If your husband buys a masturbation device in front of you and tells you that it is to prevent you from having sex with other men, then it may be a way to express love and protect you. However, this does not mean that it is completely true or reliable.

First of all, the masturbator is a personal product, and everyone's sexual preferences and needs are different. Therefore, your husband doesn't necessarily buy a masturbator, because he believes that you will have sex with other men.

Secondly, sexual behavior should be based on mutual consent and respect, not on any external factors or protective measures. If your husband bought a masturbator in front of you and told you that it was to protect you, then he should communicate frankly with you to understand your feelings and needs.

Finally, if you feel uneasy or suspicious about your husband buying a masturbator, you should have a frank communication with him to understand his thoughts and motives. If you feel that his behavior is inappropriate or disrespectful to you, then you should consider consulting him about marriage or seeking other suitable help.

In short, if you feel uneasy or suspicious about your husband buying a masturbator, you should have a frank communication with him to understand his thoughts and motives. If you feel that his behavior is inappropriate or disrespectful to you, then you should consider consulting him about marriage or seeking other suitable help.