How can girls meet the psychological needs of boys?

Say the answer first: the appearance is well dressed, the personality is natural and graceful, and people are interesting!

99.99% of boys are lascivious, please don't be surprised. This is the ancestor of human beings, written in' genes', and lascivious is out of the need of' reproduction'.

If a male monkey is not interested in a female monkey from the beginning, then monkeys will be' extinct' because they can't reproduce, let alone later humans.

Therefore, lewdness is not necessarily a bad thing, at least in this way, there will be human children and grandchildren and race reproduction.

My advice

The beauty of a woman is nothing more than her face value, figure and soul.

Face value doesn't mean how much makeup you want to wear, as long as you dress appropriately and are natural and graceful.

Body, personally prefer those girls who wear jeans.

Since he has evolved into a human being, he has a more' advanced' aesthetic. No boy likes a dark, vicious and haggle over every ounce girl.

My advice

I used to work in a factory, and there was a girl in my group. I asked her to borrow her mobile phone, and she lent it to me without saying anything. I borrowed money from her and she generously gave it to me. I asked her to help me with my work, and she agreed without saying anything.

I had a crush on her at that time.

Therefore, generosity is a woman's best accomplishment.

Girls like interesting boys, and boys also like interesting girls.

In Princess Pearl, Brother Wu likes the swallow because she is interesting. Even, she surpassed Princess Wei Zi in the audience's impression, and even the emperor liked her and called her a pistachio.

In fact, love is' two interesting souls' together, which can collide with sparks.

If he thinks you are interesting, he naturally wants to stick to you, but you can't let him have it. This is called' you can't eat the meat in your mouth'.

Remember: don't let him think that you care about him, so that he can't guess you, which is interesting.

Although the soul is beautiful, it is invisible, and anyone can see a beautiful girl. (especially boys, they are not blind)

The first impression is Yan value, dressed appropriately.

The second impression is to get along, show your natural and graceful personality, and make him feel that you are different from other girls.

The third is to find the same interests and make him think you are interesting!

I'm so good. The above is my successful experience. How do you think girls should attract boys? Welcome to discuss in the comments section.

Thank you for your invitation. In love, everyone has their own needs, whether boys or girls, no matter what needs, they need to be satisfied to a certain extent. So how can girls meet the psychological needs of boys?

I summarized the following points:

1, reserved appropriately.

Even if you like each other very much, don't be particularly active, especially obvious. What can arouse boys' desire to conquer is always girls' love. There seems to be no hope, but there seems to be hope

2. Depend on boys appropriately.

Leave things like changing light bulbs and reinstalling computers to boys. You can forget to bring your wallet several times when you go out, so that boys can pay for you happily and satisfy your vanity and boys' sense of security.

Step 3 praise boys appropriately

Not only girls but also boys need to listen to sweet words. Praise each other often, which will make him love you more. In fact, when both boys and girls fall in love, their hearts are the same, and all they want is to love and be loved.

Although every boy has his own shortcomings, he also has his own advantages. For many boys, if they can get the affirmation and praise from their girlfriends, they will be more motivated. In this case, girls can affirm and encourage boys in time, so that boys can make better progress to some extent.

4. Give boys enough face and steps outside.

For boys, it is relatively good to face, which requires girls to face in many occasions, especially in front of some public places or friends. Only in this way can boys feel very proud and proud.

5. Know how to praise boys

Whether in life or at work, being praised is a very pleasant thing. If girls often praise boys, although it contains some exaggerated elements, it will also make boys feel very comfortable and will work harder to improve themselves.

6. Find boys' minor faults in time and give opinions and suggestions at critical times.

Although many boys hope that girls can see their very good side, many times some boys still hope that girls can find their own problems in time and correct them objectively, so that boys can more clearly understand their own problems and constantly improve themselves.

7. Cooperate with the boys' performances properly, and share your thoughts and opinions.

Many times, boys care about girls' comments and opinions about themselves. Although many times they don't say anything, they have strong psychological needs in their hearts. For example, when they encounter difficulties, they will miss girls' ability to listen well. At this time, girls should be able to cooperate moderately, which will be of great help to boys.

First of all, I think this problem should be mutual. Girls should meet the psychological needs of boys, and boys should also meet the psychological needs of girls. On this basis, I will answer this question.

How can girls meet the psychological needs of boys? Girls are relatively sensitive and careful, so if you are with your boyfriend, try to take care of his daily life, or often remind him to pay more attention to the details of life and work. For example, remind him not to leave anything behind when he goes out, and pay attention to the appropriateness and cleanliness of the occasion when he goes out to dress. After all, boys are generally careless, and many details of life will not be noticed. A wife reminded him that it would save him a lot of trouble in his work and life, and even give him a lot of extra points outside. In this way, the boy will be psychologically satisfied, will be grateful to you, and will love you more, because your careful care makes him more confident.

The psychological needs of boys include all aspects. He hopes to go out drinking with his friends and exercise with them. This requires girls not to rely too much on boys. He has his life, and you have your own. If you don't dress up your life to the fullest, you will become a disgruntled woman, and you will also stop him from going out to socialize, so that you two will have conflicts and neither of you will be happy. Therefore, girls should not put all their thoughts on boys, so you will be very tired. This requires you to continue to have your own life circle.

Of course, the same thing that boys should do is to take good care of your girl. Two people are good for each other.

To answer this question, we must first know what psychological needs men have.

I think men have four psychological needs: the need for identity, the need for being loved, the need for freedom and the need for security.

Therefore, the corresponding women should do the following:

The vast majority of boys are very face-saving, especially boys with serious male chauvinism.

Therefore, girls should know how to save face for men and praise boys in front of outsiders.

Whether it's praising his ability, appearance and personality, as long as it's praising the boy's own characteristics.

In this way, meet his needs for recognition, and he will feel your recognition and respect for him.

When faced with a choice, I believe he will have a correct judgment, even if the judgment is wrong, it is only a new beginning.

Life will inevitably encounter difficulties. When encountering difficulties, just stand by him and always encourage him, support him and let him know that you are his strongest backing. No matter what happens, you will always be behind him.

Love is giving. If you love someone deeply, no matter what he becomes, you will always pay for him, support him, encourage him and meet his need to be loved.

Many girls like to stick to their boyfriends, thinking that this can bring them closer, but it is not.

It is best to have a sense of distance between people, and distance can produce beauty.

You are not the only one in his life, but also his family and friends.

Give him enough time to maintain his social group.

Even playing games is a way for him to vent. He must be unwilling to complain in front of you, because he wants to keep his manly side, so where does his pressure come from? Go to the game.

So give him enough time to meet his demand for freedom.

There are always some women's magazines that teach you to play hard to get, deliberately approach other men and increase your boyfriend's sense of crisis. I can't agree with you at all.

If you are a very attractive woman, then other men will naturally and unnaturally express their appreciation for you, which is enough to make your boyfriend feel a sense of crisis.

If you keep a close distance from them, it will be counterproductive. For a boy who is not stable enough, he will think that you are not suitable for him because you can't control your behavior.

No one wants to put a time bomb around him, so that he can risk being green at any time.

That's all, my suggestions to meet the psychological needs of boys.

I am a stranger, I just want to live in your heart.

When you get along with seven lonely days, you will find that although physical satisfaction is very important, psychological satisfaction sometimes far exceeds physical satisfaction. Psychology is subtle, and it is easier for women to get along well.

Senses: Men take sex as their starting point, which is often the point of thinking. As a woman, we should think in this respect and get psychological satisfaction from physiology. Sex has a great relationship with psychological well-being. Sensory people have a strong desire for psychological satisfaction, which is also necessary for human reproduction, and has nothing to do with color, and brings psychological satisfaction through the senses.

Taste: Someone once said, "To grasp a man's heart, you must grasp his stomach". Whether a man can go home early, besides sex, is a woman's cooking. Sex is sensory pleasure, and eating is the most direct taste pleasure. The taste of eating is psychological satisfaction. A virtuous woman is easy to get happiness and cherish. When a man gets married, he will choose a woman who can cook. The psychological satisfaction brought by taste is also the basic composition of family.

This is what it should look like, and women who can do this are often happy. She did it through the solitude of two people, physical and psychological satisfaction, so that men cherish her more. The appearance inside is only action, and the appearance outside is the embodiment of emotional intelligence.

Vision: Men like women to dress appropriately, rather than go out glamorous and charming. Men are also keen to take out the door and gain vanity. From visual refraction to psychology, from the envious eyes of others, we get the greatest and strongest psychological satisfaction.

Face: A man's face should not be despised. A woman with high emotional intelligence will take care of a man's face outside. Although I sometimes wronged myself, it is more violent to look down on a man's face outside than usual. It is wise not to fight back head-on. Since a man's face is so important, giving him full face will give him great psychological satisfaction, because he feels that he is loved and respected by the woman he likes.

Internal and external actions are the most important. Details determine success or failure, and we can also take care of him in the form of "brother-sister love".

Sister-brother love has only become popular in recent years. The reason for this is that there are no men who depend on their parents before marriage, especially many men have some Mu complex. Men who leave home are decisive and strong, but men who go home are eager to be taken care of. Home is a gentle harbor.

Take care of him from the plot in the form of sister-in-law love;

Psychological satisfaction is linked to daily behavior, love is mutual, and women can't pay blindly, so the balance of love will tilt to one side. As a man, you also need to pay more. Women's psychology is always more complicated than men's. Being fully satisfied psychologically can make love more beautiful and happy.

Men and women look at things in different ways, so it is often heard that women like sensibility, while men judge by rational thinking. So men's rational thinking often directly determines their evaluation of things. If a girl wants to know the boy she likes, she must first find out the differences between men's and women's ways of thinking, and then understand according to the individual, because different boys have different personalities and hobbies because of their different growth experiences and experiences, so the process of getting along with each other will vary from person to person. The following summarizes some common psychological needs of boys. In order to make their communication smoother, they can make adjustments according to their actual situation.

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First, boys like girls who can inspire their sense of conquest. For most boys, if something is easy to get, they often lose interest. So this is why it is normal for boys to pursue girls no matter how the times develop, because boys will regard chasing as fun both emotionally and in life, grow up in the process of chasing and show their charm, so they will really cherish the girls pursued by boys. Therefore, girls should grasp a certain scale when interacting with boys, show their charm and advantages, arouse men's interest and meet their psychological needs that they want to conquer.

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Second, boys like girls who can bring freshness to themselves. In the emotional world, the freshness of boys is very important, which is why many girls feel that boys will get bored with themselves after getting along, and most of this boredom is caused by the lack of freshness when getting along. Therefore, girls should understand this psychology of boys, constantly improve themselves and expand their hobbies. Instead of blindly indulging in feelings, they should have their own lives. Only by constantly improving and maintaining your charm can you get more fun in the process of getting along.

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Third, boys like girls who give him face. Now many girls are very strong, but no matter how strong they are, they should give boys some face outside. Don't embarrass boys in public, which will greatly hurt their self-confidence and affect their communication.

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Fourth, boys like to understand the girls who support him. Men value their careers, which is also different from women. So they also hope that their other half can understand themselves and support their career. If girls can stand in the position of boys, think for him and support him in pursuing his career, boys will feel very gratified and will rely more on girls.

This topic is very broad. First of all, we must eliminate the psychological needs of boys in physical and economic aspects before we can talk about the psychological needs of the spirit. Spiritual needs. I think so, too. If you think that as long as you make 100% efforts, you can meet the psychological needs of boys, then you are all wet, just like winning a prize is too difficult, and your price is too high.

It's better to be yourself and become a likable girl, so as to meet the psychological needs of boys, which will be much easier! How to be likable? You should do the following:

1: touching and sweet smile. The more indifferent the boy you like, the cuter you have to smile. A sincere and lovely smiling face is the most attractive (no heavy makeup, no pretensions). Simple smile is your unique style. You should be able to skillfully use this method, which is more precious than many languages. Shy and sweet smile is very attractive.

2. Gentle and obedient, boys like obedient girls. When boys begin to like girls, they will listen to them unconsciously.

3. It's neither disgusting nor excessive. Boys like compliments, especially those from girls, which will be very useful. To conquer a boy's heart, your proper praise is often more effective than an army.

4. Care and consideration, you should clearly know that care is a kind of feedback-let him know that you care about him, so that he can care about you.

If a beautiful girl can skillfully and appropriately use this secret, you can basically meet the psychological needs of boys.

Eating color is human nature. The original motive force of human reproduction is the mutual attraction, physical satisfaction and spiritual pleasure of men and women. The opposite sex, which attracts men and brings them sensory stimulation and spiritual pleasure, should not only meet the overall aesthetic needs of men, but also meet their individual needs. It should also be in line with men's differentiated appreciation habits of the opposite sex as a spouse and in general. Men's general aesthetic cognition of the opposite sex includes the comprehensive impression displayed by the combination of external image and internal cultivation. Women dress appropriately, dress appropriately, and behave gracefully and dignified. Visually speaking, it must be attractive to men. However, when men choose partners, different individuals also have personalized needs: men who are not tall and look weak and weak are willing to choose women who are taller and stronger than themselves; There are not a few tall men who choose petite women as their partners. The balance of a man's figure is a little poor, and the other half is required to be symmetrical and coordinated. Some men like plump, some men like slim ... personalized needs vary widely, and men are extremely tolerant of other aspects of women as long as they are suitable for the road. In addition, women must understand a problem: that is the aesthetic difference between men and spouses. Men appreciate women who are not related to their spouses, and wish that women's low bras are infinitely low and miniskirts are too short to exist. Satisfy the sensory stimulation, love explicit coquettish, reminiscent of the frivolous opposite sex. However, as a spouse, men still hope that their other half will not cause controversy in all aspects, and "can see from a distance, not ridiculous", which is touching and awe-inspiring. Therefore, as a woman, it is an inevitable requirement to capture the prince charming in her heart and meet her psychological needs. Such women must first have their own gender roles, and strive for an attractive image with high return rate. At the same time, keep your own unique personality and true colors, and don't deliberately carve and disguise. The rivers and mountains may change, but not one's essential nature You can't blindly cater to each other's needs and make self-changes, otherwise it is very likely to cause bad consequences, but it will not pay off. Also, it's easy for a woman to keep the correct outlook, not to be a gold digger and a princess, and let the man she likes really like you.

How can girls meet the psychological needs of boys? Are you sure you want girls to meet the needs of boys? Well, it shows that you are a gentle and considerate girl, and the person in your heart is a blessed person.

To meet the psychological needs of boys, we must first know what the psychological needs of boys are. In order to "prescribe the right medicine", most boys are actually a little male chauvinist, saving face and having strong self-esteem. Although they seem indifferent on the surface, they have strong psychological needs:

In front of friends, he wants you to be an innocent girl, so you'd better be obedient and give him enough face.

When he encounters difficulties in his work, he hopes that you will be good at listening, encouraging and motivating him to move forward;

When he makes a small achievement, he wants you to cast an admiring look, and he won't be stingy with praise.

It is said that a woman's heart is like a needle in the sea, invisible and intangible. In fact, some men's hearts are sensitive and fragile. Do you remember when you walked together? I don't know why he suddenly stopped talking; When I opened the door at night, I somehow saw his frown; Having dinner with a friend, I found him unhappy for some reason. Such a boy is actually insecure and needs more, which requires you to show more patience and tolerance.

In love, boys and girls actually have their own needs. You can't just ask the other person to satisfy yourself and ignore the other person's feelings. Give each other a full sense of security, so that this relationship can bear fruit and last forever!

Just kidding, it's really enviable to have a girlfriend in this society now! How can we meet the psychological needs of boys? Love is equal. Don't make humble love! If you have to say something.

First, clarify the relationship between male and female friends. Let all his friends know that you are his girlfriend. No longer single.

Second, give him enough face outside and be a weak woman at home. Even if you are strong.

Third. Dress yourself up. Sensible, knowledgeable and considerate.

Fourth, honor parents, respect elders and care for the weak.

You ask everyone, if girls meet the psychological needs of children, it is better to directly ask everyone what kind of girls boys like? Ha ha!