Wei Zi Gege got married.

In recent years, with the rise of costume drama, there have been many endless novels and film and television dramas.

Regarding the TV series with the theme of Qing Dynasty, whether it is the princess who was a smash hit or today's "Walking on Thin Ice", the girls in the drama are all as beautiful as flowers and beautiful, and they live a very happy life with their own Xu.

However, the real place in history is not like this, not only unlike in the play, but also very tragic.

Looking through the history books of the Qing Dynasty, we will find that there are very few children born in Gege in the Qing Dynasty, and they are all short-lived. Nine times out of ten, they all died of lovesickness. Why is this happening?

This is related to the system of the Qing Dynasty.

According to the laws of the Qing dynasty, Gege was born with a special servant to take care of him. Children can't live with their biological mothers, and they can't meet at will. They can only meet once a year. You can't be close to each other every time you meet, it's just a formality. In this case, Gege doesn't like it at all.

Most of Gege's marriages are related to state affairs, either to the family of princes or ministers or to ethnic minorities. According to statistics, there are 18 people who are married 10 to 13 years old, 2 1 person who is 14 years old and 6 people who are over 19 years old. Two others died before marriage.

After Gege gets married, the royal family will give her a mansion, but she is not allowed to live with her husband. Although married, the generation is still there, and the husband can only live outside. Moreover, when my parents-in-law see Gege, they should give a big gift, kneeling three times and knocking nine times.

If Gege and his wife want to have sex, they must apply to the nurse and get her consent. Gege grew up under the care of these wet nurses. Naturally, she didn't dare to resist and had to be at her mercy. In this lack of married life, it is difficult to get pregnant.

Gege people are ashamed to speak, but they can't get rid of it. Over time, most of them suffer from lovesickness. They are like flowers without sunshine, unhappy all day and naturally short-lived.

According to the records of Qing history, after Shunzhi, there were 3 1 gege in * * *, and 24 people died before the age of 50, accounting for 77%. 15 of them died before the age of 30.

There are also some lucky people in Gege, such as Daguge in Daoguang and Princess Duanmugulun. After she got married, every time she saw her husband, she was stopped by the wet nurse and was very angry. So she met Xuanzong and asked Xuanzong to be their husband and wife. Xuanzong said, "Husband and wife can make decisions." Then Dagege scolded the wet nurse and lived a happy life with her husband. It is a miracle that their husband and wife gave birth to eight children. Ten princesses of Qianlong, Gulen and Xiao. Although she and Feng?enyende are also politically married, they really love each other, which is a match made in heaven. They are very loving, very loving. In this respect, the Tenth Princess is undoubtedly lucky.

However, the tenth princess was miserable later. Her only son died young, and her husband died young. She can only live on the help of her sisters.