What is pinching?

Leg pinch syndrome is a way of masturbation (mostly suitable for women). Masturbation is commonly known as masturbation, but masturbation does not have to be done by hand. You can also squeeze the vulva by pinching your legs or leaning against something (such as bedding, arms, thighs, etc.) to produce sexual pleasure. ). Children around 2-3 years old have this instinctive physiological reaction, which is rare after 10 years old; But once this reaction is inadvertently discovered, some people will consciously start masturbating.

Women have been educated conservatively since childhood. They always think that touching genitals is a low-level and obscene thing, so they feel guilty about masturbation. This kind of pressure conflicts with the pursuit of masturbation pleasure. In fact, it is the autonomic nervous dysfunction caused by anxiety.

[Edit this paragraph] Children's leg pinch syndrome

After listening to the detailed description of Shanshan's mother, the doctor made a detailed examination of Shanshan and told Shanshan's mother that this situation is called "leg-pinching syndrome" in medicine. The main symptoms are habitual movements characterized by leg-pinching and constant rubbing against the perineum.

"Leg pinch syndrome", a strange medical term, felt at a loss, but when she thought it was a disease, her mother immediately became nervous. Then, the doctor patiently explained to Shanshan's mother that "leg pinch syndrome" is more common in young girls aged 2-3, and may also happen to boys. Most children have seizures just after falling asleep or waking up, usually once every few days, and some children can have seizures several times a day. According to the analysis of children's sexual characteristics, at the age of 1-3, children's sexual needs have shifted from oral cavity (oral desire period) to anal region (anal desire period) and then to genital region. Therefore, when the child is 2-3 years old, this habit of pinching legs is adapted to the physiological development of the child's sexual desire, and it is not a serious disease.

From a certain point of view, children's "leg-pinching" behavior belongs to a kind of self-immorality and a kind of generalized oppression on external genitalia, but it is different from masturbation confined to external genitalia (such as vagina and penis) in adolescence and adulthood. This is because children can accept sexual information or sexual stimulation from the outside, but they can't feel and understand it inside. Generally speaking, children's leg-pinching habits will disappear at a certain age or be replaced by masturbation.

It should be noted that this kind of self-immoral behavior of children can appear when they are a few months old. Manifestations include paroxysmal body twisting, redness, sweating and moaning. Therefore, parents often worry that they may be misdiagnosed as epilepsy or other serious diseases.

1. Parents excessively stimulate their children's legs and perineum, including frequent cleaning and scrubbing;

2. Local itching and friction caused by pinworm disease, vulvar eczema or tight pants;

3. Increased sympathetic stress caused by calcium deficiency;

4. Individual children are emotionally unsatisfied due to lack of maternal love or discrimination, and vent through their own stimulation.

Parents should not be too nervous when they find that their children have the habit of pinching their legs, because this does not mean that their children are psychologically or mentally unhealthy, and they are worried that their children will become worse in the future, let alone scold and forcibly stop this behavior of their children. Parents' attitude is too tough, but it will increase children's further strengthening of this behavior.

With the help of a doctor, parents can carefully check whether there are bad stimulating factors in their children. If you have diseases such as pinworm and vulvar eczema, you should treat them in time.

If these bad stimulating factors are excluded, parents should help their children in real life.

1, form a good habit of children's work and rest on time, don't sleep at night and in the morning, and don't stay in bed after waking up, thus reducing the chance of children's "leg pinch".

Parents should also pay attention to create a good family environment for their children and give them full warmth and caress. Children are usually encouraged to take part in some outdoor activities to minimize the time spent playing alone.

3. When parents find that the child's "leg-pinching" action is about to happen, or it is happening, parents can pretend as if nothing has happened, pick up the child for a walk, or present some toys and cartoons that are more attractive to the child to divert the child's attention.

Those who still have no effect through the above methods should go to the hospital in time.