Reflection after suicide.

I was shocked that my husband's aunt committed suicide. On the surface, the two daughters handled it inappropriately.

According to the second daughter's report, the boss is not filial to his mother in Hangzhou.

I am thinking, what is filial piety?

Because I had an awkward fight with my mother a while ago, she said I was unfilial. So I sent her a long letter with a clear conscience and a relieved apology, hoping that she would understand my efforts and not kill me with a stick.

This happened because I bought xylitol moon cakes online and sent them to my hometown to remind her to check. Suddenly and inexplicably, someone said, "I don't accept it, you can return it."

Confused, I asked why. She said that she remembered that the canned food I gave her last time had expired, so she wanted to have a fight with my mother-in-law. I think the canned food incident was purely unintentional. Nobody cares, and it's not intentional. It's time to explain. Apologizing is too modest. It's been less than half a year.

I don't know how mom brought this up again, and then took it out on me with moon cakes. After my mother called and yelled at me, "You know what? I almost died babysitting for you! There was a car accident on the day I left by car, and my blood pressure came up. " "If I don't let you go back that day! Do you have to go? Do I have to go back? Did I buy you a train ticket? Do you have to take a bus, saying that it is more convenient to take a bus? " My fire was lit immediately, and it was all my fault. This is so unfair.

In this way, I didn't answer the phone for two or three days until my husband called my mother. My mother may have some regrets. She said that when her blood pressure was high, her brain was in a mess and what she said was terrible. Although I didn't hear it with my own ears, I was still very happy.

I took the initiative to call again. As a daughter, I chased after an apology and finally made up.

Yesterday, I thought about what filial piety is, and immediately called my mother with the express file and told her that she must tell me something in the future. Don't do anything stupid. Everything should be open and honest, and I feel that I can't always be filial. My brother is disobedient now, it's adolescence. We are all filial to our children, so we have to wait for him to be filial to her later. My mother replied, "I exercise every day and massage my head every day, and I have lost several pounds." Seeing your grandmother like this, I don't think I can add to your burden and embarrass you. "

Grandma is a patient with Alzheimer's disease. My mother has been worried about becoming like her, because it is very painful for her to take care of her now, not only physically but also mentally.

I made a phone call and felt comfortable and uneasy. I hope that, as my mother said, everything will be handled lightly and don't haggle over every ounce.

I also hope my brother will grow up soon.