How to gently remind others not to smack their lips?

Spit it out first, chatterbox. "In the traditional culture of China, there is a factor called' try not to bother people', that is, no matter what you do, try not to bother people, and try to make everyone face and feel comfortable so as not to be embarrassed." This is Nie Weiping's response to "Ke Jie's denunciation of China reporters for speaking English" some time ago. Yes, China people have a moral quality of "unwilling to cause trouble to others" in their bones. With the disappearance of collective spirit and the prosperity of independent consciousness, everyone is becoming more and more indifferent and casual. If you want to ask how to remind people, whether you have compassion, some people can remind them, some people can't remind them, some friends remind them, and some strangers remind them. Everyone knows it, and each has its own way. I'll just talk about two situations. One is the bad habit of talking and not eating, so I can't help talking about him. The second situation is more common. It's too loud when eating, which affects you. How to remind you politely in these two situations to avoid embarrassment.

Situation 1: Ask him a question, "Look at you, you've been cooing like this. What's wrong? " People may have toothache or wisdom teeth pulled out, so don't be preconceived. If it is a habit, asking this question is a reminder. People with bad habits generally know that this behavior is a bad habit. You asked, just to remind him that you only think you will converge. After all, people are ashamed of themselves, and even if you tell him "I'll call you back", the unconscious person will not converge.

Situation 2: Compare with him: point to your mouth, "Shh, keep your voice down" (this sentence is silent, but it is expressed with your mouth), let only the two of you know and save him face. If you point it out in front of him, it's like pointing out that someone farted in public. This is an emotional intelligence problem.

In a word, remind me that it is best not to talk to honest people in diplomatic terms. After all, people don't want to be told, and you don't want to be told in person. In addition, if you want to give others a step, don't give others a step. How can others get down?