The new pearl-returning crape myrtle surrendered.

For most post-8090 s, the happiest thing in childhood was watching Princess Pearl in front of TV, which satisfied our yearning for a better world. At that time, we liked the liveliness and loveliness of swallows and the gentleness of Wei Zi, and watched them make a scene in the solemn palace and play in the book room.

Many people were disappointed when "Return to Pearl 3" came out. We thought that the happy life of the prince and princess would come to nothing. From the beloved swallow to the disgruntled woman, a heavy reality is presented to the audience.

The reason why we resist is that the gap is too big. The first two princess huanzhu are full of romance. Couples love each other, write poems, stay bored in the palace, and then go for a walk in the market. This is a poem that countless people yearn for and a distant life. The third part, the plot is put into real life, everyone faces their own helplessness and learns to compromise, from which we see our own shadow.

When I was a child, I especially envied the swallow. Born at the grass-roots level, she became the emperor's favorite princess in the search and rolling, and was also favored by the graceful May. We envy them for "the company of the world of mortals, living in a drizzly way". In the third part, when we step into marriage, we find that love is a dream and marriage is a reality. Also confirmed Ma Yili's sentence "Although love is easy, marriage is not easy".

After stepping into the besieged city, the swallow encountered all kinds of crises in her marriage, such as mother-in-law, mistress and having children. ...

When the swallow's previous tricks were tired of being watched by everyone, the gold medal for avoiding death lost its efficacy. Yongqi and Swallow entered the marriage hall, their enthusiasm retreated, and the estrangement was gradually exposed. Once or twice, we were immersed in their illusory love stories, and no one noticed the gap between them.

Yongqi, an outstanding May Brother, was highly valued by the emperor. Being superior since childhood, out of curiosity, he fell in love with this little swallow who grew up outside the palace. Swallows grew up in the market, without father or mother, unconstrained. From a secular point of view, it is "the door is not right." She naturally belongs to the outside sky, just like her name. Her life has been changing since she married into the palace.

When everything is changing, she is still that ignorant little swallow who likes to gag. The crisis approached step by step, but she was unaware of it. She quarreled with Yongqi and accidentally hit Yongqi on the head with a whip. The emperor accused her of "not making progress for so many years, becoming more and more like a dissatisfied housewife. No wonder Lafayette doesn't like it. "

But they forgot that when the swallow quarreled with Yongqi, she threw a small stone at Yongqi, which not only did not blame, but also gained a wave of comfort. Falling in love is not the same as getting married. You can do whatever you want, but after you get married, you must act like a good wife and mother. What's more, your current status represents the royal face, and her status is Fujin.

When she entered the palace and became Fujin, she was still so unscrupulous. She ran out as soon as she got angry, regardless of Yongqi's face. It is said that the contradiction between husband and wife is solved behind closed doors, but the swallow has let everyone know. Everyone's time is precious, and Yongqi is a prince entrusted with a heavy responsibility. On weekdays, he has to deal with complicated court chores. At this time, the emperor couldn't stand it any longer. He taught, "My family is unlucky, so I have such a daughter-in-law." Swallow is very wronged. The people who once loved her in this palace were suddenly filled with disgust for her. She has not changed, but everything around her has changed.

At every stage of your life, you should learn to grow up, and occasionally cheat on people close to you, which is cute, but when you encounter problems, you will always cheat on others, which is childish. No one likes to play with people who are always naive. Everyone needs * * * and progressive allies.

Inadvertently, she didn't even know she was pregnant, and she miscarried several times, which made Lafayette unbearable. For the sake of the royal family, her arch-rival entered the world of husband and wife. Knowing the plan is the standard of yongqi in the eyes of the secular. Her mother has a strong family background, is good at singing and dancing, is knowledgeable, gentle and sensible, and the key is to know how to calculate and win people's hearts. Even her best friend, Wei Zi, risked her life to be pursued.

This makes the swallow feel inferior to the extreme. Without a backer, her only chip is just a little favor from Yongqi. The reality pushed her into the corner step by step, and the huge gap made her roar and suffocate, but no one understood. To comfort her, only the queen and Rong Mammy who hated her. She said helplessly, "I don't even have a speaker in this palace."

Before marriage, she didn't have too many constraints, so she was lively and smart. After the marriage, she folded her wings involuntarily, but all the rules of the royal family and Yong Qi's "necessity" broke her heart.

I have seen such a sentence in "Human Disqualification": "It is not easy to live in this world. There are all kinds of chains around you. Move a little and the blood will come out. "

This is a problem that most women have to face. We have to face this sudden change alone, from a carefree girl to a wife, from being indifferent to the child's crying every night to her husband's incomprehension. We complain a few words, others will say you are melodramatic, so we have to bite our teeth and swallow.

With the intervention of a third party, the marriage crisis broke out.

Zhihua was born in an official family. Naturally, he was exposed to intrigue in the court since he was a child, and his mind was far away from the swallow. Even Qin Lan, who plays Zhihua, has publicly said that when I play Zhihua, I can't stand myself like that.

She is good at capturing people's hearts, dressing herself up delicately, and knowing the short-tempered character of the swallow, she deliberately creates all kinds of scenes in which the swallow hurts her, so that the swallow loses control and collides with everyone. On the one hand, she won Yongqi's sympathy, on the other hand, Yongqi became disgusted with swallows, and the previous mutual affection was exhausted. With such a strong rival in love, the swallow was tortured and bruised all over.

Fortunately, behind her is not empty. There is also a loving brother Xiao Jian and a clever sister-in-law Sang Ni. With Sunny's help, the true face of the painting was revealed.

Finally, Yongqi gave up the beauty of the country and accompanied the swallow to Dali, Yunnan. Swallow also learned to compromise and grow in this marriage. Her aunt Qiong Yao was very kind and arranged an acceptable ending. In real life, I'm afraid the swallow has surrendered in this marriage.

When we were young, we envied Wei Zi's sisterhood and were willing to give everything for each other. They bravely traveled the world together, went to jail together, went to the execution ground together, and were hunted together. The two people who were originally alone found the feeling of mutual appreciation.

One is active, the other is quiet, the other is responsible for creating an atmosphere, and the other is responsible for saving the scene at a critical moment. This is the best friend that all girls yearn for. However, different personalities can also lead to different fates for two people.

In Princess Zhu Huan 3, they got married separately and moved out of Shu Fangzhai one after another. Wei Zi entered the bachelor's office, became a good wife and mother, and the swallow moved into Jingyang Palace. Their life trajectories began to be different. Although they all have sisters' names, their respective emphases are different, and the time has quietly changed a lot.

Wei Zi returned to his family, had children, had concerns and had different ideas. But the swallow hasn't changed. She is still the one who wants to do one thing and live in the past mercilessly. Once, after quarreling with Yongqi, she ran to the bachelor's office and asked Wei Zi, "We have nothing. Let's wander the world like before, be an ordinary person and leave this palace. " . But Wei Zi was different. He replied, "No, you have nothing. I didn't. I can't go with grandma, Dong Er and Erkang. "

At a certain stage, everyone's considerations are different, and the focus of life is different. The rest is self-evident. Learning to say goodbye to the past is also an ability.

On the contrary, I am not surprised that Wei Zi and Xiaoyan's rival in love is getting closer and closer. I think this is reasonable. Wei Zi and Zhihua have many similarities and belong to like-minded people. Psychologically speaking, both of them belong to the "sticky" temperament type, which is completely opposite to the "bloody" character of swallows. People with opposite personalities can't beat their hearts.

When we were young, we were looking for friends to fool around with. When we grow up, we need friends who are evenly matched and can grow together.

Conclusion: When you go through vicissitudes and walk a certain distance, you will find that. Zhu Huan Gege III shows a bloody reality. No one can always live in love beautified by filters. After all, we have to grow up, enter different stages of life, learn to deal with our emotions, learn to face sudden difficulties alone, and learn to compromise with life. No one is static, we are all growing.