Song Wei Zi and Song Jia

Song Jia always had tears in his eyes when he recalled his marriage tragedy.

This marriage, with a difference of 2 1 year, is about the early 1980s. The huge age gap makes people think that Song Jia has ulterior motives.

Just married for three years, Song Jia chose to divorce because her husband was seriously ill. Verbal attacks and moral accusations have plunged Song Jia into controversy again.

She went to America, away from all disputes. Times have changed, and the younger generation of singer "Little Song Jia" has become a new star in Ran Ran. When we talk about her again, we can only distinguish her by "the great Song Jia".

Until 20 years later, Song restored the truth at that time in tears:

"I can say responsibly that I am worthy of this relationship."

Song Jia 1962 was born in Qingdao, and his family is very well-off.

But due to the particularity of the times, her carefree childhood was only five years old. After being beaten into a capitalist, the Song family was devastated.

When the house leaked, it rained all night, and Song's father died unexpectedly.

Orphans and widows, coupled with poor family circumstances, made her family suffer cold eyes.

Gossip and indifference didn't crush Song Jia, but made her stronger.

Song Mu, who raised five children by himself, didn't feel sorry for himself. On the contrary, she pays special attention to children's education and cultivates them into talents.

Under such difficult conditions, Song Jia still insisted on being admitted to the university.

And Song Jia 1.7 meters tall, bright and touching facial features, such conditions are good prospects for art.

Only the art colleges that enrolled students turned down Song Jia because of her background.

Until 198 1, 19-year-old Song Caijia caught up with the opportunity of drama enrollment and began to learn acting.

Facts have also proved that this is the most suitable way for her.

As soon as she entered the university, Song Jia kept inviting people, but the school wouldn't let her go, and she didn't dare to go out to film. She could only shoot some activities in Shang Yan in her spare time.

The dignified and atmospheric image made her selected by Tianjin TV Station to host the Spring Festival Gala.

As everyone knows, some seeds of fate have been quietly planted.

In this year's Tianjin Spring Festival Evening program, Peking Opera actor Zhang Xuejin was also invited to perform traditional China operas.

If Song Jia was a rookie at that time, he could be called a master of Peking Opera. He was born in an artistic family, and his father was the founder of Zhang School.

As luck would have it, on that day, after all the programs were over, the hosts on the stage all retired to rest behind the stage. Only Zhang Xuejin's program, everyone stepped down and stood on both sides, hoping to have a quick look.

Song Jia followed and stayed to watch, and the result was greatly shocked.

The appeal of traditional Chinese opera makes the audience boil. The audience even stood on the chair and cheered for Zhang Xuejin, and the audience applauded.

After the recording, everyone will have dinner together, and friends will introduce Zhang Xuejin to Song Jia.

At this time, Song Jia has been completely fascinated by girls, but she still carefully asked: Teacher Zhang, can I take a photo with you?

Zhang Xuejin said casually: It's no use taking pictures.

Song Jia thinks he is a mistress, but he is a master of fine arts and doesn't want to take a photo with himself.

Fortunately, she was smart, and soon found an individual topic, so as not to make the scene too embarrassing.

And let the relationship between the two people press the acceleration button, is a phone call from Zhang Xuejin.

1983, Zhang Xuejin's father, Mr. Zhang Junqiu, was celebrating the 55th anniversary of his artistic career, so Zhang Xuejin called to ask Song Jia if he was interested in hosting this event.

It was this rehearsal time that brought the two people closer together and began to eat and chat together.

Zhang Xuejin's love, everyone around him can see it, but he dare not take that step, because he is divorced, and Da Songjia is 2 1 year old. When he opens his mouth, he is afraid that he can't even make friends.

Even his father Zhang Junqiu encouraged him: You must pursue such a beautiful girl. You must take the initiative. Do you have to wait for someone else to chase you?

With the encouragement of the people around, this relationship became half clear, and Song Jia got the message.

After consulting Song's mother, her mother's democracy allowed her to control her happiness.

Therefore, Song Jia reluctantly presented flowers to the Buddha at this commemorative performance, and they got married in the presence of Zhang Pai disciples at table 16.

If Song Jia was just a nobody at that time, that's all.

At the right moment, the film Impression of Autumn and the TV series Frog Girl starring her were broadcast on 1983, which was very popular and made Song Jia famous.

Just when she became famous, it was reported that she married a 2 1 year-old Peking Opera master. Many people think that she wants to take a shortcut to climb the dragon and attach the phoenix. Others think that her father's early death has made her love her father, and everything is ugly.

Song Jiaben grew up listening to "Difficult to Listen" and can't hurt her anymore.

When filming, she lived her own life.

1988, 26-year-old Song Jia gave birth to Zhang Xuejin's daughter Zhang Chuchu. Zhang Xuejin, an old woman, likes the little princess very much.

Song Jia, holding her breath, has also ushered in the heyday of her career, and her previous works are also ready to go.

"Deep Courtyard" and "Falling Mountain Wind" made her win the Hundred Flowers Award for best hostess twice, and washed away all previous gossip with strength.

Dominating herself, she had a good time and was proud for a while.

As everyone knows, this is the final happiness countdown of a family of three, and a change has come quietly.

When Zhang Chuchu was 3 years old, a friend of the couple visited her home. When Xiao Chuchu saw her father, she rushed to hug him, and the thermos bottle accidentally fell down.

Zhang Xuejin, eager to protect her daughter, picked up Xiao Chuchu, and the hot water burned his feet, and his instep was also scalded, which made him swollen badly in an instant.

Only two weeks later, there was an important performance in Zhang Xuejin. My feet were swollen and I couldn't wear the boots in my dress.

The hospital prescribed him an external ointment for treating burns, but Zhang Xuejin chose blood transfusion to make the wound better quickly, so that the blood circulation would be faster and the wound would heal faster.

However, the hospital unexpectedly lost power that day. Song Jia also invited Zhang Xuejin to come another day, but Zhang Xuejin insisted on coming and left after bleeding.

I think the power outage is like God's last rescue for this small family, but unfortunately they didn't receive the signal.

It was the frozen plasma taken out of the refrigerator, which contained hepatitis C virus, so Zhang Xuejin was infected with hepatitis.

At that time, as a new disease, even the doctors couldn't explain it well. They just told Song Jia that wounds would be contagious if they touched each other, so it was best to use vegetables and chopsticks separately at ordinary times.

In order to cure liver disease, Song Jia stopped all her career and accompanied her husband to Japan to find the possibility of cure.

199 1 year, under the contact of friends, the couple came to Japan for treatment.

The medical expenses for new diseases are also sky-high, more than 10 thousand needles, one needle a day.

Song Jia taught himself Japanese, performed in Japan with friends, and sold tickets on the streets.

It's like a popular movie star starting over.

But Zhang Xuejin's illness can't be cured by drugs. There has been inflammation in the body and I need to rest.

Besides, he can't be angry, and his condition will get worse when transaminase goes up.

Song Jia was too young at that time. She doesn't know how to support this family for the rest of her life. The urgent task is not to let the tragedy spread.

Living under the same roof, it is difficult for her to ensure that her young daughter is not infected.

The huge medical expenses forced her to shoulder the heavy burden and go out to film.

All kinds of emotions in her heart, she can't vent on her husband, because he can't get angry, and her condition will get worse.

After consulting with Zhang Xuejin, they chose to leave amicably.

Although the two chose to divorce, it was because they fell in love that they separated.

But the outside world doesn't know why, except that Song Jia abandoned the sick man and accused her of flying alone.

This episode also left a gap in Song Jia's career for some time. At that time, she was also young, and she always wanted to win another Hundred Flowers Award to achieve three consecutive championships.

Unfortunately, it backfired, plus the annoyance of housework.

Song Jia chose to leave himself behind, so 1993 went to the United States to learn the Internet, hoping to let bygones be bygones and start over.

Three years later, Song Jia returned to China and started shooting again with nostalgia for acting.

She fell in love with director Yu Min and real estate businessman Cai Cheng. Every time, she was eager to get married, but unfortunately she didn't get to the end.

In 2008, 46-year-old Song Jia reappeared with an ominous little son.

In the program, she also said that she had only been married once, and bluntly said that she had no expectations for marriage and didn't want to get married again.

During this period, her ex-husband Zhang Xuejin, who maintained a friendly relationship with her, also detected liver cancer in 2008, and finally came to this step.

But also because of the aggravation of Zhang Xuejin's illness, young Zhang Limin resolutely decided to marry a beloved exemptions and take care of him for life.

"I married him because I wanted to take good care of him all my life. He is such a talented person that he shouldn't spend his life so lonely. "

Zhang Limin's accompanying care also enabled Zhang Xuejin to spend the last four years of his life holding a warm hand instead of facing the cold wall.

They went in to listen to the opera, talk about art, and start all over again in the countdown.

Zhang Xuejin's illness is also a nightmare for her daughter Zhang Chuchu.

Just for my father's later wife, Zhang Limin, she never liked it.

A large part of the reason is that when they got married, Zhang Chuchu, who thought it was his father's birthday, learned about it at the scene.

She thinks that Zhang Limin covets his father's property and has ulterior motives.

Although she no longer likes Zhang Limin, she did serve Zhang Xuejin as a nanny for four years.

This discontent finally broke out when Zhang Xuejin died, and a drama of throwing dirty water at each other was staged.

In 20 12, when Zhang Xuejin died, she wanted to leave some of her property to Zhang Limin, but she didn't want it. The last house and 600,000 savings were left to my daughter Zhang Chuchu.

But many years later, Zhang Chuchu brought up the past on social platforms, suspecting that the other party had taken the money and set up a memorial archway.

As for the "last side" of Zhang Xuejin, their statements are quite different.

Zhang Limin means that Zhang Chuchu is too busy filming in the crew to come back; On the other hand, Song Jia said that the airport was blocked by heavy snow. After receiving the news, my daughter hurried back by train, but still failed to see the last side.

Later, in order to pave the way for her daughter in the entertainment circle, Song Jia brought up the past with Zhang Chuchu's talk shows.

But Zhang Chuchu is not as lucky as Song Jia, and several plays are not splashed.

Parents can only pay debts for their children and grandchildren, so Song Jia arranged a jewelry brand to design jewelry for her daughter.

Song Jia, who was busy with all this, met the Belgian businessman Steven with the help of his friends when he traveled to Europe.

Their birthdays were on the same day, which increased their goodwill and soon became boyfriend and girlfriend.

In 20 17, 55-year-old Song Jia stepped into the marriage hall again and faded out of public view.

Looking back on Song Jia's feelings for half her life, she has been holding an umbrella for her family silently in those years known as "unfeeling".

So every time she falls in love, she longs for a result, and a man shelters her from the wind and rain.

After all this, Song Jia constantly reflected on his feelings with Zhang Xuejin: Is separation really the best result?

If she could do it again, maybe she would make a different choice.