My girlfriend is too considerate and always doesn't listen to me, which makes me very upset. What should I do?

Falling in love, getting married and having children are part of the life of most people in China. If your girlfriend is full of ideas and always refuses to listen to you in love, I can give you the following suggestions for your reference:

First, love is the process of two people running in. Don't think that one side controls the other. It's good for a girlfriend to think too much. The key is to see if these are reasonable. If they are reasonable, you should not object to letting her listen to you, but support her with all your strength. If these ideas are your obvious mistakes, give her reasons to try not to do them. After all, she is just your girlfriend, not your wife. She has her own personal freedom. At this time, your best way is to convince her. If she won't listen, let her try again. Even if she fails, it's not necessarily a bad thing, at least she won't do it again next time. So, at this time, you are just talking about friends. Don't let yourself be too controlling. In this case, you will break up sooner or later because of this.

Secondly, if you are a controlling person and it is difficult to change your personality, then I suggest that you can change your girlfriend, although this suggestion is a bit cruel. Imagine if your girlfriend has an idea and you object, will she be happy if she continues to follow your plan? She is a thoughtful person herself. Even if she can endure you once or twice, she can't endure you all her life, so this contradiction will break out sooner or later. As the saying goes, "A leopard cannot change his spots." You are all such personalities, and it is only a matter of time before we break up. Why let everyone break up again? You can find an obedient little woman who will do whatever you say, which will also reduce many contradictions in life. Why not?

In short, both parties in love are free, so don't interfere with each other too much. If you feel that you get along, you will continue to close, and if you get along, you will separate. You don't have to bother yourself.