Daughter-in-law and mother-in-law: A thousand good times are not worth a "bad"!

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been the most difficult. After all, there is no blood relationship. Both sides should be careful what they say and do. If they are not careful, they will plant a thorn!

My relationship with my mother-in-law has always been very good. Before me, my husband talked about a good girlfriend, but because the woman's family was too poor, her mother-in-law disagreed, and her husband was a dutiful son, she finally broke up!

As for me, my mother-in-law was very satisfied at first. After all, my parents have a pension, and we don't have to bear it at all. And my education is higher than my husband's, so my mother-in-law liked me from the beginning!

After we got married, we started a business! Then I gave birth to my first child, a son! The whole family is very happy, especially my mother-in-law! Because the business in the store is getting better and better, I invited my mother-in-law to come and help with the children!

Maybe everything is going well, so I get along well with my mother-in-law

Later, due to the vigorous development of tourism in our city, all pig farms in our city were demolished, and our business plummeted!

At this time, my son is 3 years old and can go to kindergarten. Mother-in-law goes back to her hometown and I will take care of the children myself!

Suddenly one day, my husband told me that my mother-in-law was in hospital and needed an operation! On that day, the three of us were in the hospital with our mother-in-law, and the operation was scheduled for 2 pm.

The doctor said it was only a minor operation, because my mother-in-law didn't pay attention to confinement when giving birth to a child, which led to a little sagging uterus! Let the family not worry!

More than an hour after the operation, our family has been waiting outside the operating room. The doctor said that the operation was good and everything was normal, but I was afraid of postoperative bleeding, so let my family pay more attention to the patient's situation tonight!

That night, I took the initiative to stay and look after my mother-in-law. I stayed up all night, emptying her urine bag, and staring at her surgical site for fear of problems!

I finally stayed up until dawn. At noon, I called my husband and asked him to have a look. I'll go back to take a bath, have a rest and come back for a vigil at night!

Who knows, as soon as my mother-in-law heard that I was going back and asked her son to take care of her, she immediately began to cry, saying that I didn't want to take care of her and let her son do it, and that men would take care of her.

In this way, I have been crying and complaining about me in the ward. I also told the patient in the next bed that I had no conscience, how she used to take care of my confinement and left Tian at home to help me with my children!

No matter what I say to my husband, my mother-in-law thinks I don't want to care about her!

I was angry, too, and complained to my husband: I had an operation yesterday, and I stayed up all day and all night. Now I want to go home, take a bath and have a rest, okay? I dare not sleep a wink all night, and take care of your mother wholeheartedly. Not only is your mother ungrateful, but she also scolds me in front of others. When my parents were sick, my sister-in-law didn't even look! I am a daughter-in-law with a clear conscience! Since your mother is like this, I will never come to the hospital again. Let your brother and wife take care of her!

In this way, I was angry and didn't go to the hospital to take care of my mother-in-law!

Because this time, my mother-in-law is obviously dissatisfied with me. When I gave birth to my second child, although she was happy on the surface, she took care of me obviously differently!

When I gave birth to my first child, my mother-in-law surrounded me and my children all day, bathed and nursed them and took them to bed at night!

This time, she gave birth to a second child. She only bathed the child once, but she didn't help feed the child, let alone take the child to bed. She goes out to work in the fields all day. Even my husband cooked and bathed the children!

Later, the child had to be hospitalized because of pathological jaundice. At that time, the child was only born for a few days, and I was still in confinement. I asked my mother-in-law and my husband to take the children to the hospital. My mother-in-law turned me down on the grounds of motion sickness!

Now that the child is over one year old, I will take care of myself! I once asked my mother-in-law to take care of me. I went out to work, and my mother-in-law said that I would take care of my brother-in-law, and I would rely on him to take care of the elderly in the future. Can I be unfamiliar?

Later, my sister-in-law didn't need her mother-in-law to bring it, saying that she brought it herself. My mother-in-law said to bring it to me, and I said forget it, I'll bring it myself!

Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not related by blood, and even the best relationship will be ruined countless times because of a "bad"! This thorn will always be buried in the hearts of both sides, perhaps, it will be buried to the deepest place with time and slowly fade away!