Can long-term masturbation cause serious psychological harm?

It is not enough for women to masturbate.

Although masturbation is a common way of sexual masturbation, long-term masturbation habits will affect women's sexual life after marriage and the sexual relationship between husband and wife.

There are often some miserable married men who talk to us about their unhappiness in sex counseling.

A man who has been married for four years says that his sex life with his wife is like a burden. His wife doesn't like to accept his penis, but she always wants him to rub her vulva with her hand. As a result, every ten or twenty minutes, my wife gradually became excited ... My wife was completely satisfied and even said thank you. However, this husband can't synchronize. The husband and wife had sex in a normal posture, but the wife didn't react excitedly, and they broke up in discord. As a result, the couple's normal sexual life has become a rare record of happiness.

After investigation, it was confirmed that the husband's wife had a history of masturbation for 7 years before marriage. She can't even change the habit of directly stimulating the genitals with her hands, just replacing her hands with men's hands.

This is a typical negative effect of masturbation. This negative effect comes from three aspects: first, long-term masturbation produces the habit of dependence, and you can't get pleasure without this familiar habit; Second, the long-term dependence of autologous genitalia on finger sensation leads to strangeness or rejection of heterosexual genitalia, and even clinical resistance; Third, the long-term masturbation has produced a great psychological prejudice, that is, people who are addicted to masturbation can no longer realize that sex is an emotional experience process created by both men and women * * * jointly, * * * jointly, but still limited to their unilateral satisfaction, leading to separation from the sexual object and unable to achieve mutual agreement.

It can be seen that masturbation can't be a habit, especially a habit of dependence. Masturbation can only be a temporary masturbation before marriage, not a normal sexual destination. Lovers and men masturbate, because the masturbation environment can not reach the stimulation intensity of the woman's vaginal environment, so they can generally abandon it after marriage and change to normal genital copulation. But women are not. Because women's clitoris is not directly exposed, genital copulation is often unable to produce deep pleasure because of insufficient penis stimulation, which makes it difficult to reach orgasm. Women who have the habit of masturbation can let themselves enter orgasm smoothly through the stimulation of their hands, so continuing masturbation to satisfy themselves will hurt their husbands' feelings.

Therefore, women with a history of masturbation, especially those with the habit of dependent masturbation, must resolutely transform themselves after marriage and actively cooperate with their husbands in order to realize that kind of deep love.