Parents dragged their daughter away because of the bride price problem. What are the problems behind oolong?

The question that should be concerned behind this matter is whether the sky-high bride price is to get married or to sell her daughter.

First of all, for this parent, they not only don't respect their daughter, but also regard her as a commodity and want to make themselves rich overnight through a marriage. This kind of psychology itself has some distortions and problems, because for their children, they are independent individuals after birth. Although our parents can educate and discipline their children, it doesn't mean that we can do anything to them, because children also have their own dignity and personality, and we can't do anything that insults their dignity and personality. Moreover, China's marriage law clearly stipulates that no one may interfere in marriage. China advocates free love and marriage, and no one can obstruct or forcibly manage marriage in its name.

Secondly, the state does not advocate bride price, and the state has also introduced various methods to strictly regulate high-priced bride price, because for the state, the available means in dealing with bride price are very limited, and there are certain loopholes in the corresponding management, because it has a very deep cultural tradition for products, especially in the vast rural areas. Bridal gifts are also an important means to test the sincerity of both families. Many people think that as long as you give money, you will pay the cost and won't do anything wrong easily, which will make the marriage of two people more stable.

However, with the continuous development of economy and society, the problem of bride price should also be properly solved, because for most of us, the bride price is not absolute, but it will become a bargaining chip for many people and even change the taste of marriage, and the sky-high bride price is one of the reasons why many people are afraid to get married.