Hu Ziwei is ill.

Someone once told me that women are also playboys. Indeed, Francois described women's frivolity, but relatively speaking, women's chances of philandering are much less than men's, because philandering is a flowering period, and women's flowering period is very short, and they fade in the blink of an eye.

Moreover, all ethnic groups in the Asia-Pacific region are much more harsh on women in gender than men. In modern times, Gu Hongming once put forward the teapot and teacup theory of husband-wife relationship. As a generation of scholars with western education, this theory is more authoritative. We don't know whether westerners accept it. However, male students of the Chinese nation have been carrying out the Ku-style spirit very tacitly since ancient times.

If a male emperor doesn't have dozens, hundreds or even thousands of wives, all men will suspect that he won't enjoy a good life. Wu Zetian, the most powerful woman in history, is four Toy Boy, but she has been repeatedly criticized by present and future generations, saying that people's life style is not good.

Moreover, a woman's playboy is not up to grade. Emma Wu Zetian loved only one gigolo at a certain time. At most, the Zhang brothers are not like emperors. They drive a sheep cart around the palace, and the sheep pulling the cart snore wherever they stop. The poor queen might as well buy lottery tickets once, or use her own money to buy lottery tickets. Somehow, they can admit defeat, but they have to rely on the ruthlessness of grace. Later, everyone knew the secret. The palace is full of salt water, and the bad sheep almost died of salt water. But all the sacrifices were worthwhile, so the sheep was included in China's vast cultural classics, and Wang Xing, the sheep cart, was also included in the idiom dictionary.

Round and round is to put a playboy's hat on a man's head.

There has always been a saying that men become bad when they have money. Actually, it should be corrected Men have a better chance to be playboys when they have money. I always feel that a man's playboy has nothing to do with how much wealth he has. I was depressed for a while and was fooled by two small coins among the poor. Actually, I'm poor, too, but to me, those people belong to the abject poverty class, and their belts are patched.

I often eat and drink with them, noisily go to the temple Taoist temple to talk about the scriptures, and drink in the flowers under the willows in Taoyuan, a suburb. I was really happy in those days, because I didn't feel any pressure in this crowd. Providing all the activities funds made my prestige soar and my right to speak was fierce.

I'm busy giving glib advice. These people have had several scandals under my nose, and the most fashionable couple of them still don't know how they lived.

That man once invited several good friends of our group to his house for dinner, and I followed his orders and went to dinner happily. At that time, the delicacies on the table were a bowl of Chinese cabbage, a bowl of braised potatoes and a bowl of Chinese cabbage bean curd soup, all of which were filled with white porcelain blue-edged bowls. At that time, I just sat there and ate this vegetarian meal since I was a child. Later, I added a table of dishes on the grounds of drinking, and I couldn't help but sigh.

Later, I contacted him several times. I see him practicing Qigong every day, running by the river in the morning and meditating and breathing at night. Once I asked him why he practiced, called longevity. At that time, I made a mockery How can you live to be 100 years old? I advised him not to just stay at home and get some living expenses when he was laid off. Children need money for their future education. If you have the strength to practice, you might as well make money while you are young. He replied righteously: money is a foreign thing, and suffering is a blessing. And I will be blocked by everyone's own interests.

This miserable classmate actually had an affair with another equally miserable female classmate in the group. Everyone realized it at that time. Every time he reminds both parties that they have families, he swears innocence. Finally, the woman got pregnant and gave birth to a daughter. The insider told me that the child has been here for several months and there is no need for DNA identification. Obviously, he made a baby with intact eyes. Finally, the woman was swept out by her husband, and the only property was the child, who went to find his father. This male student is from Yunyun, Wan Li, and I don't know who to look for. It's sad that the wooden and honest wife who stays at home cries at everyone.

Another male student is in a slightly better situation. At that time, his monthly income was around 400 yuan, belonging to the low-paid class. When his wife was pregnant, he was unwilling to be lonely, and he didn't know what sweet words he used to cheat a girl from the countryside. Occasionally I see them eating Lamian Noodles at a roadside stall, which may be one of the important contents of their date. Later, he went to the cohabitation room they rented for 40 yuan, which was a humble place with a newspaper stuck between two walls. At that time, the girl had miscarried, lying in a pile of broken cotton wool, staring blankly at us. The dark light is like the evil old society. He wants us to persuade the girl not to go to his house. His wife gives birth at home, and the house he lives in is his wife's dowry. I remember suddenly changing my face and leaving in a rage.

In fact, we calm down and look around. Modern people are tall buildings, but they are a little old. Those who have lived in bungalows and courtyards are caught cheating everywhere, which has nothing to do with having money or not.

It's just that our standard of living is often not aimed at our own group, but always looks up to the heights. The upper class thinks it is a scandal when there is a little movement, and thinks that rich people are not good things.

For example, Sister Hu Ziwei caused a sensation all over the world, and CCTV had a scandal, but I didn't know that there were more village women crying for the land and poor people who were philandering, making their lives miserable.

Comparatively speaking, if a playboy is the essence of a man, it is better to find a playboy who can spend money and quote the famous words of his favorite person. Money may not buy true love, but it can solve some practical problems. At least, if you have children, don't run around incognito, and don't let abortion girls live in open-air aisles.

Money may not buy everything, and it may not be all-encompassing, but the possession of wealth is at least the embodiment of a person's ability to adapt to society and master the minimum rules of society, and a person who has gained status and wealth through hard work knows better that life is not easy.

And poor men, we can't generalize, most of them tend to look at everything too simply, because they have never succeeded, and they don't want to admit their incompetence or complain. Let's make an analogy. For example, in primitive society, men went out hunting, some people came back with wild boar roe deer, and then at worst, they got back a few hares and pheasants. But some men don't even have the ability to get a grass root back, but they complain that others run fast and don't wait for him, so they don't use great strength to help him. Complainants around us are often like this.

A man who can afford money may only want the body of a beautiful young woman, knowing in his heart that you are willing and fair. I know a female star who transferred 200 million yuan to her account before she went bankrupt and tried every means to keep her from surfacing. Later, the female star starred in a TV series and was told that there were hidden rules with the chief producer. I think people will give face if they are willing to reduce the price, and what hidden rules are used.

A man who spends money on women doesn't necessarily love you, just playing with you, but at least he can minimize the harm to women, arrange a stable life for women in troubled times, and let women live a life without love when they leave.

When meeting such a man, women can't get love, at least they can get money and secular stability.

Men always despise women who love money, but they don't know that men have huge emotional choice space until they die. A woman's short youth is fleeting, and she has no choice but to ask for money as a guarantee.

The same is true of Hu Ziwei mentioned earlier. Although Zhang Bin has a little strength, his salary is limited. He can earn some money by pinching, only enough for a new love, not enough for an old love. People may feel uncomfortable, but they can't have both, so they have to play dumb and don't listen to the old man crying. Zhang Bin likes playing games, but he plays beyond his control, so he makes a mistake.

Hu Ziwei people lost their jobs and husbands in middle age. It is said that their family is still registered in Zhang Bin. Today, no matter what means they used to get to this position, they suddenly found that they had nothing, so the beauty got angry and made a scene. What are you afraid of? There's nothing worse. If Zhang Bin and Wei Zi have a house and a car, it is estimated that they will dry their tears and go to Europe for a holiday.

Rich men spend their hearts on women, while men without money spend their hearts on women.

Because he is poor, what he can cheat a woman is his feelings. Although I have no money, I really love you. What he wants is not only a woman's body, but also a woman's complete dedication and trust.

There is a living example at present. Faye Wong, a student living in a residential area in Jinsong, Beijing, is an outstanding representative of playboy poor boy. He cheated his wife out of her money, took a girl to Rome, and even shamelessly told her in public that he had done so. What can you do to me? ! Finally, the wife who knew the truth fell from the 24th floor in despair and shattered herself to show her despair and hatred for the world. I'm thinking, a woman standing at that height, facing her New Year's life, recalling all kinds of love and hate between them, what a biting sadness that moment was.

I saw intimate photos of two cheating people in Rome, and I really don't understand how they can smile so brightly. Moreover, I believe that the death of his wife will not make him feel guilty, including shielding his family, but will only hate the deceased more. Even a mistress like a "cute little angel" probably thinks that the old woman is dying, so they will rob the inheritance that does not belong to them behind the dead. But legally, they are husband and wife, which is his right. We have no choice but to be angry.

As bystanders, we always feel that it is irrational to die like this, but we don't know the pain until the knife is cut on ourselves. When a person discovers his feelings and everything he has paid for their lives, he meets such a person. How will he face such a result for the rest of his life?

I remember a sentence from the heroine who committed suicide by Zhang Henshui in Modern Youth: Every day alive is sad. This effect, that kind of pain, can only be eliminated by breaking it into pieces.

If the man around you has been instilling in you that love is sacred and pure land ... Please show your yellow card and call the police.

Poor men escape their responsibilities, the fact that life needs material things, their mental retardation and incompetence in adapting to society, and swear at women's reasonable survival requirements. I once saw a man yelling at his wife: Qian Qian, you know money, why don't you sell it! It makes people feel cold all over.

No matter whether he is rich or poor, he should understand that this pure land should be developed by him and love is sacred. This sacredness should be accomplished by him. It takes two people to treat each other well, live well, eat and wear well, keep each other warm in winter and protect each other in summer. These are not what women should provide, but what men should hunt.

Not long ago, a young woman I knew, who was also a netizen of Tianya, was married without telling a word by a poor man and gave birth to a child in a pure land of love. Finally, several friends scraped together the money for her abortion.

Again, playboy has nothing to do with wealth.

So I think, if we are lucky enough to get love, then cherish it. If we can't get it and don't want to be lonely, then open your eyes and find someone worthy of company. Otherwise, like me, I will go hunting with a bucket and support myself. Don't expect anyone.