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We also fantasized that public opinion and moral standards would make these ladies finally choose to retreat. But soon, we found that this is really a naive fantasy.

In fact, if you are a little careless, your marriage is likely to be pried away by those prosperous mistresses. Therefore, in this bad situation, whether to do it or not is a big problem that cannot be ignored.

In ancient times, there was a woman named Huo Xiaoyu who loved a man deeply and gave her body and mind to him. As a result, the man left and never came back, and she met a new lover.

Heartless, Huo Xiaoyu died in despair and desolation, leaving a letter saying: I will become a ghost after death, which will make your wife and concubine restless.

It is said that this sentence is like a terrible curse, which makes the man have nightmares and even hallucinations every night. He suspected that his wife and concubine were unfaithful and killed them by mistake. He was in a trance and had no peace all day.

When our marriage is brutally threatened, it is obviously inappropriate to advocate etiquette. Robbers there have burned our house with firewood. What can we do to ask you what you want?

It can only be said that the times make waves, and more and more women are no longer weak and unyielding, and will not allow the tragedy of life to happen to themselves inexplicably ―― you once loved me, but now you don't love me.

Sorry, I am not your stopover inn, you are mine, and you can only be mine. If you leave me, we'll see. For my marriage.

Don't hesitate to put all your eggs in one basket with an absolutely tragic attitude. This is a sad feat and a strong need. Marriage is like an invisible battlefield, especially when the enemy is so powerful, it is imperative to protect marriage and protect marriage.

It is the arrogant mistresses who have shaped the wives like nails, and as the most important role in this war, men should weigh and grasp it themselves.

From love to marriage, from an unknown poor boy to a respected middle-aged man, who doesn't work hard in marriage? We hooked up with high-quality men trained by youth and were taken away by mistresses for nothing?

Fortunately, marriage gives us some good guarantees, such as his reputation, his face and even his property. Giving up marriage means giving up some hard-won achievements.

Many men should carefully consider whether it is worth it. A forbearing wife often chooses to suffer alone, while a fierce wife should name names.

Hu Ziwei's live broadcast caused irreparable humiliation to her husband, but she deserved it, because we all saw her husband come back. Although many stories about her husband's return are confusing, she protected her marriage after all.

Of course, the idea of gambling is very important, but the saddest state of nails should be to get their own names. Jiang Yan's tragedy tells us that it is of course necessary to be a nail house wife, but if you break yourself, you will only regret it. So, keep your strength, deal with the struggle anytime and anywhere, and be a tough nail house in the new era.

How can we keep our feelings fresh?

1, laugh.

Learning how to laugh and develop a sense of humor can balance your daily life. Find a place to smile in life, so as not to be upset.

2. Friendship.

As husband and wife, you will have some common friends, but you will also have your own friends, which is understandable and even necessary. Your spouse can satisfy you in some things, but in others, you need friends with the same hobbies to engage in activities together. It is also beneficial to spend time with these friends.

3. Participation.

A couple should have the same understanding and goals about things other than marriage and family. When you are working together on a meaningful plan or something you love, you will share the fun of participation with each other.

For example, some couples teach Sunday school together or participate in fellowship together. In my own case, my courses in universities, churches and seminaries are very heavy. My job is to stand on the stage and give lectures and teaching. My wife Josie has never stood in front of the stage, but she is directly involved in my work. She prepared hundreds of handouts for me. She knows everything I say as if she were teaching.

4. Sexual behavior.

The perfection of sexual behavior is characterized by intimate communication. To achieve the perfection of sexual behavior, we must integrate emotions into it. Too many couples are tired of their sexual relationship, so their sex life becomes monotonous. I recommend many couples to read Solmonon Sex written by Joseph Dillo, which contains some practical suggestions to help the romantic side of lasting sex. Sex is a part of marriage, but some couples overestimate it and regard it as the main key to maintain marriage.

5. share it.

This includes sharing ideas, news, work, plans and so on. Including pleasant and unpleasant sharing. When I wrote this book, we were helping a new puppy, hoping it could adapt to our home. It's our second puppy, and it's also our bride's little male dog. Her name is Ahua, but now it seems that "poor thing" is more suitable for her! Josie and I, when we are near the kitchen (we never go barefoot! ), all we can expect is that jen woke up and shouted. No matter which side of us sees a pool of shit on the ground, he will clean up and brush the floor without asking the other side to do it. In this family, the roles of men and women have gradually changed, and this coup has formed more sharing based on each other's abilities, talents and cooperation, rather than being limited to a rigid model.

6. Personality integrity.

A person who is reliable, trustworthy and uncompromising about his beliefs and standards is the embodiment of having a complete personality.

7. talk.

The conversation is interesting, meaningful, valuable and emotional to improve the happiness of marriage. It is very important to communicate frankly, express your feelings frankly, or participate in the feelings of others.

8. love

Including care, intimacy, trust and commitment. Always considerate actions, big or small, can convey love and language. Love means liking that person and looking forward to getting along with him or her.

9. adapt.

It is to accept the uniqueness of others, that is, to accept the reality of others without expecting him to be a copy of himself. In other words, allow others to do it, but not necessarily in the way you expect.

10, be patient.

This quality can also be expressed by "acceptance". Accept other people's quirks, often forget things, and allow yourself to be in a bad mood, that is, accept the other person as a mortal, just like yourself. When you need to express your unhappiness or worry, you should start by creating the relationship instead of hindering it.