Will it be bad luck to meet a living thing flying into the room?

Of course not. In fact, the biggest problem here is our concept, not our problem. Because we have formed such a habit of complaining from the beginning, everything is pursued outward, and we don't know how to review and reflect. We always want to change others or the outside world, but we don't know how to change ourselves. Because the outside world cannot be changed, or it is difficult to change, the only thing that can be changed is ourselves.

Therefore, as soon as we feel so unlucky, we will take corresponding "measures" to deal with our so-called "adversity" or trap, and always try to escape from it. The result is just the opposite. The farther you run, the deeper you sink, and you will never get rid of it. In this way, you will naturally fall into a vicious causal cycle, and you will fall into the quagmire of being misunderstood, framed, designed and so on. Therefore, people are unlucky, not by looking at the name, the zodiac, the constellation and the constellation. Because the obstacles are caused by your own thoughts. As the saying goes: "Let others go is to be kind to yourself."

It is often said in society: "A small amount is not a gentleman, but a non-toxic husband." It is originally an "excessive husband." Misinterpreted as "non-toxic and not husband", people mistakenly think that "vicious" is the husband. "Degree" is measurement and tolerance. A man without measurement cannot be called a husband. "Less is not a gentleman, more is not a husband" is a good motto to cultivate people's ability.

In ancient times, there was a man with good moral cultivation, named Lin Tuizhai, who was rich and had a lot of children and grandchildren. On his deathbed, all his descendants knelt before him and said, "You are leaving us. Let's leave something for our life. "

He said, "You should learn to bear hardships." This is his greatest concern for his children and grandchildren, and let them know that suffering is a blessing.

Some people also said, "If you bully me and insult me, you insult my personality. Personality is the most important.

The obstacle is of your own making.

Enduring other people's insults has no effect on your character.

Not only does it have no influence, but it reflects the nobleness of our personality.

True happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less.

These are habits that we ordinary people can't avoid. To sum up, there is a fundamental thing to worship, that is, the impregnable self, what I do, what I do. There is a "I" in everything, which will give birth to hatred. If I slow down, I will plant evil reasons. It's not so much that things or others make you suffer, but that you are not cultivated enough.