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Li Meijin was sought after by thousands of parents, but her own daughter failed to "grow up". Did anyone design a rollover?

Wenzhangma

Editor Zhang Ma

In order to make their children successful, many parents learn many experts' parenting classics online. Speaking of parenting classics, Professor Li Meijin is definitely the representative of parenting experts and the most prestigious "parenting expert" among parents.

However, just recently, the news that "Li Meijin, a child-rearing expert, is sought after by thousands of parents, but her own daughter is an ordinary person" broke out on the Internet, which triggered a heated discussion among countless netizens. Netizens have said, "Did the parenting expert set up a rollover?"

Her views on parenting are quite different from those of other parenting experts, most of whom advocate "happy education" and "tolerant education", while Professor Li Meijin advocates "do it when you should". She put forward many effective solutions to many thorny parenting problems and solved many parenting problems for many parents.

In the eyes of many parents, Professor Li Meijin's views on parenting are very original, and many parents have also become the beneficiaries of Li's Parenting Classic. As a result, the tickets for Professor Li Meijin's lectures are almost sold out.

But it is true that almost all parents know that a child-rearing expert has a daughter with an ordinary career and ordinary qualifications.

In an interview program, Professor Li Meijin talked about his daughter for the first time, and it was this interview that made many netizens exclaim: "Did the parenting expert set up a rollover? Is the daughter actually an ordinary person? "

In the interview, Professor Li Meijin admitted that his daughter was not a gifted child, even a little slow. Although I usually work hard, my grades are often at the bottom, and it is more common to fail the exam.

At this time, as an enlightened mother, she was not too worried about her children's study. She knows that her children have tried their best, and although they have not achieved remarkable results, they still live up to their own efforts and parents' expectations.

In the past few decades, I have seen many living examples. Many teenagers are forced by their parents to do things they don't like, and they are psychologically hurt by heavy pressure from an early age. She thought: Daughter must not do this. She would rather let her children not go to famous universities than grow up happily.

Therefore, Professor Li Meijin began to find another way, no longer obsessed with children's grades, and began to explore other aspects of children's talents. When she found that her daughter had a great talent in music, she resolutely shifted the focus of cultivating children to art.

Finally, my daughter went to an ordinary art college and became an ordinary undergraduate music teacher after graduation. It is this ordinary life, ordinary career and ordinary life that makes netizens begin to question: "The children of parenting experts have not become talents?"

The "parenting experts" sought after by thousands of parents, but the children are just "ordinary people"? This has made many netizens who pursue the "Lee's Parenting Classics" frankly disappointed.

Everything has two sides. Many netizens said that although Professor Li Meijin's child didn't become an enterprise elite, she did what she liked every day. Isn't such a happy ordinary life success? Isn't the university teacher successful enough?

In fact, we really don't need to keep our children in a small corner and go our own way. Instead, we should guide them to find their own way of life and let them know more about the hardships of life, and they will eventually succeed.

What if the child turned out to be an ordinary person? Each of us is not an ordinary person from a certain point of view. We just don't want to admit that we are just an ordinary person.

This is the wisdom of Professor Li Meijin. She dares to admit that her daughter is an ordinary person, not a gifted child. Instead of forcing her children to study hard, she encouraged them to find their own interests and cultivate them. This is a parent's success.

In the author's opinion, Professor Li Meijin's personnel arrangement doesn't seem to have been overturned as netizens said. Even the author thinks that Professor Li Meijin is more successful than those parents who are "chicken babies" and those who force their children to go to famous schools, because she knows what their children need and she has not forgotten the initial intention of education.

The essence of education lies not in how much knowledge you have learned, but in improving children's logical thinking and cultivating children into people who are useful to society.

Parents, everyone has their own ideas and opinions, and it is up to them to decide what kind of person they want their children to be. I hope all parents in the world can really learn to "educate".

I'm Zhang Ma. If parents encounter problems in parenting, they may as well post them in the comments section to discuss with you, or talk to me privately about how to educate their children. Welcome to help forward the praise. Thank you!

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