Signs of the Twelve Constellations (Part II): Teach you to confirm your own or TA's heart.

Why do I put water sign Scorpio Pisces Cancer and earth sign Taurus Capricorn virgins together, and then put wind sign Libra Gemini Aquarius and fire sign Aries Sagittarius together?

Simply put, water elephants and earth elephants pay more for themselves in their feelings.

Scorpio, Pisces and Cancer are all gentle and considerate efforts based on the hope that the other party can love themselves more and give themselves spiritual satisfaction.

Taurus Capricorn virgins are down-to-earth, docile and easy-talking, also based on the hope that the other party can make their lives more comfortable and stable and give themselves physical satisfaction.

In other words, when the water sign doesn't feel spiritual satisfaction (when it loses its sense of security), when the earth sign feels that living with you is more tiring, it may immediately choose to give up this relationship.

To put it bluntly, what they value more may not be love itself, but what love brings him.

Therefore, they don't expect their other half to be excellent too much, because that will make them feel insecure, and they want to find a suitable and comfortable person rather than an admirer.

On the other hand, fire elephants will move with the wind. What they need is someone they admire, someone who can constantly attract themselves and give them a sense of freshness and excitement.

What they need is something more interesting than proper comfort.

It's not utilitarian to follow air signs's emotional efforts. He just thinks the other person is excellent, so he also wants to show himself better and doesn't want to owe him.

They value the relationship itself more than the two people in the relationship, so he won't stare at each other's subtle changes, nor will he think about his subsequent changes.

Only through reality, that is, love or quarrel, can we judge whether two people's feelings are good or not.

More because of trust, they don't always think that people will change, and they don't even think about it. Because small contradictions accumulate into big contradictions, you will realize that this relationship has changed. They want to go back to when they were happy, but they are at a loss. They even forgot when the relationship between the two people began to go wrong, so he panicked.

Because earth elephants and water elephants are often insecure, the more pessimistic they are, the more rational they are.

As long as there are problems that they think can't be solved, wind and fire will lose their logic. In their words, they are "confused." ...

I don't know why, there will always be friends who say that I don't know enough about fire elephants, follow the trend, and I can't understand what I write at all.

It is really normal not to understand, because when you love or don't love yourself, you can't understand yourself. It seems that making a decision is an instant, but you will be wronged for a long time, sometimes you feel sorry for each other, and then you feel sorry for each other.

The more I think about it, the more tired I feel, and then the more I think about it, the more I feel wronged.

We won't really decide to break up until the moment we really give up. Only when we really decide to break up will we really understand. In the end, we will blame the mistakes on God's will, "two people are not suitable", "two people meet at the wrong time" and "two people are not suitable in this life" ...

Because in the process of entanglement, he has been trying to judge who is "right" and who is "wrong", and naturally he will ignore the thing of "love".

When you are disheartened, there is naturally no need to care who is right or wrong.

This is the logic of fire elephants following suit. When enjoying, no one is right or wrong. When you have a contradiction to solve, try your best to prove who is right and who is wrong. If the problem is solved and two people make up, then naturally no one is right or wrong. Unfortunately, the two people have parted ways, and there is no need to distinguish who is right and who is wrong.

Simply put, there is no reason to love, and there is no reason not to love.

This is what I have said countless times. You should master the skills when you are with a lion Aries shooter, and explore the rules when you are with a Libra Gemini Aquarius.

The so-called skills and rules are to find the sensitive points that he really cares about.

If you want him to fall in love with you, you have to constantly grasp the points he cares about and touch him.

If you want him to be inseparable from you, you can't attack his sensitive points.

As for the specific sensitive points or concerns, it will definitely vary from person to person.

In my early articles, I always said that the water elephant is difficult to conquer, and the earth elephant can't catch up with it at all. Then I shaped the fire elephant into an image that dares to love and hate. In fact, there is a certain deviation.

The fire elephant moves with the wind. They only dare to love and hate in the first relationship.

Because once he has experienced unforgettable feelings, he will hide the moving points and then cover the sensitive ones.

Because he doesn't want to be attracted casually, and he doesn't want to ruin a relationship because he is out of control.

With this sense of guilt about the last relationship, he is even more confused about what love is.

To put it bluntly, it is precisely because the fire elephant's feelings of following the wind are purer than the earth elephant and the water elephant, and it will also become more uncontrollable.

Water elephants and earth elephants are written more clearly, standardized and unified, because their love begins with desire and they are loyal to themselves. No matter what kind of injury, how many times of injury, we can finally learn from it and turn it into how to love ourselves more and protect ourselves.

Fire astrology will not love itself, and wind signs will not learn from it.

As long as you break up, you will give yourself countless advice. If you are tempted again, these suggestions will be forgotten.

This is their view of love.

Because they never think that love is a simple matter, and they don't want to sum up any love experience.

It has become experience. Is that still love?

What's the use of love if you can't give people surprises and impulses?

In fact, everyone is like this at first. When you meet someone you like, you can't hide it at all. If you move your heart, you can't take it back.

It's just that the earth sign is ok, and the water sign is hidden deep. They can control themselves, turn love into what they want, and change their mate selection criteria through their own persuasion.

The fire sign is too emotional. When you fall in love, you will forget these rules. Air signs thinks it's completely unnecessary.

Therefore, no matter how much you have experienced, when you are tempted again, you can still keep it simple and stick to the sense of ceremony.

As written in the last issue, water signs are good at creating opportunities for each other, which is why earth signs like to follow suit.

They have to sound out, judge whether the other person likes them or not, and then make plans.

The fire elephant's liking for a person has nothing to do with whether the other person likes himself or not. As long as the wind elephant sees a little reaction from the other side, it will feel that there is a chance.

They won't create so many hurdles for each other to break through, because they prefer to break through.

The fire sign is more spiritual than the wind sign.

If you can bring him happiness, enjoyment and even faith, it doesn't matter if you quarrel seven times a week. He doesn't care.

But if you always make him feel lonely, bored and full of grievances, and don't know who to talk to, a small contradiction may lead to breaking up.

This has nothing to do with personality, but a spiritual thing, so it can't be explained clearly in words.

Compared with the influence of love on life, they prefer to see what love should be like.

Even if two people have different personalities, he is willing to strive for change and running-in.

On the other hand, even if two people have the right personality, like relatives, they can't give him the desire and motivation to love, and he will feel bored no matter how happy he is.

For these people, it's the same sentence.

Love should be an impulse and desire from the inside out, not a responsibility and constraint from the outside in.

One sweet can swallow nine bitter, but as long as you break one, you don't want it all.

Peace and love.

Fire elephants and wind elephants speak. What do you do when you are tempted?