Active contact of the seated person.

There are 12 constellations that men actively contact in their seats. There is a certain correlation between each constellation, but there are also some differences. Virgo is one of them, and people in the same constellation have some similarities. The active contact of men in their seats is as follows.

The man in the seat always has only one active contact 1 Virgo boy.

Whether it's half a minute, three months or three to five years, remember that their initiative is only that once.

Once you officially start dating him, you will be greeted by their long passive period.

If you are lucky enough to survive their long passive period, then marry him and step into a dull life, then many times they will still be normal and positive.

About the initiative of Virgo boys:

The reason why Virgo boys seldom take the initiative is that they don't like to carry the pot.

Virgo boys often take the initiative to jump over, there are two situations:

1, your charm value must be very high.

2. Virgo boys associate with you for a certain purpose. For example, you are the right person to get married/just develop a lover relationship. .......

Except in these two cases, it is difficult for them to take the initiative.

After all, Virgo boys will think: I may mislead her by expressing myself so actively/maybe I am not good enough for her, and may hurt her/what if she holds me accountable afterwards/I haven't decided whether to start with her or not.

Take it one step at a time/in case I change or she changes later, wait and see. .......

It is these "commendable" reasons that prevent Virgo boys from taking the initiative to step forward.

What if they take the initiative?

Once our Virgo boy finally gets up the courage and/or pretends to let down his guard and comes to you with a hint, you must seize the opportunity and seize him decisively.

The small hint of male initiative that can be seen everywhere can be as small as a sentence on WeChat, "Are you there?" Or just silently give you a bottle of water. .......

Some fairies put on a proud shelf at the moment of his initiative, or respond to him with a "say it"/"all right"/uh-huh ... Don't worry, your Virgo boy will definitely be scared away by you. .......

Once scared away, you need to spend more time and energy to make him take the initiative again. Of course, it may not work.

Especially your indifference makes him calm down and let him reflect on himself. Once he has this mentality, it's really cool between you.

So remember, Virgo boys don't like being forced/chased/hunted/cheated, so when he seldom has the courage to take the initiative once, if you really love him, I really advise you not to do it.

On the passivity of Virgo boys:

Virgo boys' passivity will last until you fall in love, and you will eventually form the same interest. This is not that they deliberately put on a high profile, but that men all over the world believe in two things before they form the same stakeholders:

1. If the relationship lasts for a long time, will it be sooner or later? So, if you need Virgo boys to coax you all the time, to be honest, they won't say it, and they don't want to say it.

2. Since you haven't become a common interest, men everywhere are reluctant to make too many changes for you.

To put it bluntly: everyone likes to be passive, so he thinks that since it's just love, how can I be comfortable? Why should I change for you? -in case you run away one day, wouldn't I lose a lot?

Therefore, Virgo boy is in a long passive stage (unless he always has a goal in his heart to develop with you to a certain step, then you won't think he is passive).

It's really hard to bear ~ You not only have to work hard to pass their scores, but also bear their passive indifference ~ So, little fairies who really need male tickets to coax/spoil, I don't suggest you compete with men everywhere ~ You can find male gods such as shooters and lions who put their favorite tickets on the bright side.

Therefore, we must cherish the few active days of Virgo boys. Your enthusiastic response will not scare him away, but will make him more attentive.

Of course, once you enter the relationship, you should be prepared for a passive "high cold" protracted war with them. Either don't start or stick to it. After all, Virgo boys are really suitable to be husbands.

The active contact of the man in the seat 2 So what does it mean for Virgo boys to take the initiative to chat with you?

Virgo often gives people an elusive feeling, and it is too difficult to know his whereabouts. Every time someone is in a hurry to find him, he always appears slowly and then disappears quickly. It really comes and goes like the wind. It seems that virgins are naturally very resistant to socializing. Even if you lock yourself at home, you don't want to go out and betray others.

Therefore, Virgo doesn't have many friends, let alone those she can talk to, and even her best friends don't keep in touch often. Therefore, it must be very important for Virgo boys to contact them actively.

Virgo has always been very cautious and serious in dealing with people, especially her love. Therefore, once a virgin man takes the initiative to contact you, it shows that they are actually interested in you and have a good impression. If they always like to find various reasons to contact you, they will be fair. Then you should pay attention at this time, because virgins are very good-looking people. Taking the initiative to find you means that they not only like you, but also try to brush their presence in front of you in this way.

Virgin men are more subtle when they approach a person on their own initiative. Even if they have a good impression on you, they always use the bad things you do here to get close to you. What should they do with such a picky topic? Therefore, if one day Virgo boys have nothing to find fault with you and are eager to help you correct your mistakes, it is not because they are in a bad mood and want to find trouble with you. Maybe it's because they want you to integrate into their own lives and get to know each other better.

The man in the seat actively contacted the man in the third seat to test your performance.

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Virgo boys are still shy in love. When they face the person they like, they often don't choose to talk to her, or when they talk, it's unnatural. What would you do if you were faced with this situation? These performances of Virgo boys are actually passively telling the person they like that they like her, but they are not too embarrassed to say it. These performances can also be regarded as a passive test.

Give you a surprise.

When a Virgo boy likes a girl, he will pay great attention to her and know her habits. He will give you unexpected surprises when you need them. In fact, Virgo is quite thoughtful in doing so, because it is often said that a friend in need is a friend indeed, so girls are easily moved. That's it. Virgos like to test whether a girl really likes herself in this way.

Virgo boys like your sign.

Virgo boys are very neat people in real life. They always behave differently from others in the process of falling in love, and even strictly demand each other.

Although this feeling makes others uncomfortable, in fact, Virgo boys are doing you good, because they all hope that you can get rid of some bad habits on yourself, and even hope that even when you are angry about this matter, you can think of them when it works in the future. So when Virgo is strict with you, it means they like you.

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Virgo boys have a very serious virginity in real life, but when they like someone, cleanliness is not a big problem, but it becomes embarrassing.

Everyone knows Virgo's verbosity, but in fact, Virgo often bothers you with topics that like you every day in love, but in fact, everyone has a bottom line in love. Many people may not like Virgo's verbosity, but when Virgo is verbose, it shows that they especially like you and care about you.

Talk about the past

Virgo boys have a very heavy cleanliness in reality, even in love. When they like someone, Virgos who are nostalgic for the past especially like to talk to you about things when they were young, because they don't trust others in their lives, but when they start talking to you about the past, it is actually when they let their guard down, which is also the performance that they like you.