K constellation theory _ giao constellation

Don't always send messages to people you like.

If you don't like someone, please don't always be ambiguous about ta.

I've been thinking about a question, should I always send messages to people I like?

Xixi is not a girl with a girlish heart, nor does she have girlish feelings and affectation. But when she fell in love with someone, everything changed

The first thing Xixi thinks of when she wakes up every day is to send good morning to the person she likes and start a day of conversation. I will say good night before going to bed at night. When chatting, try to find topics of interest to each other. If there is a slight silence, Xixi will try his best to ease it quickly.

Brush funny jokes, see good ones and send them to people you like. Boys' EQ is also very high, and they will respond politely every time, so that Xixi will not be embarrassed because he does not respond.

Xixi suddenly felt something was wrong, and the boys seemed to have never looked for themselves. I always take the initiative to send messages, and the other party just looks at the reply.

Xixi asked me, I have been looking for him, will he be bored? You see, he didn't even look for me.

I said, maybe he is busy.

Actually, I dare not tell Xixi that he doesn't like you. If he likes you, he will think of you. It's not just reading your unread news that reminds me of people like you. It's no big deal for girls to send messages to people they like on a whim. The last time just let your enthusiasm fade away and let yourself give up.

Xixi is lucky. The person she likes is polite and respectful, but she just doesn't like her and doesn't hurt her.

I talked to K before, and he is a typical love rat. He told me that he had an affair with a girl recently, but he didn't want her to be his girlfriend. He just can't sleep at night, and he has someone to chat with.

But girls don't think so. Girls feel that since they are ambiguous, they put themselves in the position of their girlfriends.

Girls will send messages to K all day. The red size I bought today is really nice. It's a beautiful day today. I missed the bus today. I went to bed very late yesterday. I am too tired to have my period today. ...

K basically didn't reply, leaving only girls to entertain themselves there.

K said, do you think she is bored? I'm not interested in sending me a bunch of these useless things every day.

I said, friend, it's not that she's upset, it's that you're so scum.

If you don't like a girl, don't have an affair with her. You are just lonely, but she thinks it is love.

She loves voluntarily, and you hate her.

I don't think it's worth it for that girl. If I really like him, just wait for him to like you, and then look for him like this. Otherwise, he will think you are a bitch.

By the way, K really told the girl later, you are so annoying.

For those who are still obsessed with breaking up, it is even more sad to continue sending messages.

A girl I know will continue to send him messages after breaking up with her boyfriend. The chat record is always green, and the right side is full of messages, and the white bubble on the left side has never appeared.

The girl sent it for a month in a row, but the other party didn't delete it or blacken it, just didn't reply, just like she was dead.

I asked her, don't you feel sad like this? She didn't even reply to you.

The girl said, I am sad. I regret it every time I send it, but I can't help it next time. I still love him.

At this time, I especially hope that WeChat can have such a function:

There are some restrictions on sending a message to a person. For example, if you send five messages and the other person doesn't answer anything, you can't send them to him anymore. You can't continue sending it until he replies. This will make many people who love but can't have many opportunities mean, and will make many people who struggle in love lose face several times.

Unfortunately, no.

Even if there is, you will still try to find him. There is no way, you just can't.

I have never taken the initiative, but I have always taken the initiative to like others. It doesn't matter even if the moth puts out the fire, so I have suffered many injuries and done many despicable things. Always comfort myself that no one will be loved. I am not the worst one.

But now think about it, why bother. If the other person likes you, he will take the initiative to find you. Even if you don't take the initiative to find you, it doesn't matter if you take the initiative but don't send ten articles, and he returns one. Stop this chat before it is too late, and don't lose your dignity if you like it again.

Separated people, really don't contact again. You can't feel inferior just because you love him.

You must understand that you are also a proud little princess. You should also be loved, not trampled. Don't put yourself in a humble position, the person who really loves you won't make you so humble.

Don't always send messages to people you like. Stupid and distressed.