If conditions permit, will you ask a nanny to take care of the baby?

Chatting with a female friend, who is still unmarried and single. I often tell him all kinds of trivial things at home, just like an aunt who cares about the vegetable market!

I once talked about my nanny. She suddenly said with emotion, if possible, please hire a nanny to take care of the children in the future! I corrected her sentence immediately after listening to it.

Of course, judging from her current situation, I understand her thoughts very well. I think that babysitting can reduce her burden, and some people have done a lot for themselves.

Yes, in the eyes of relatives and friends, they always think that you are qualified to hire a nanny, but they never delve into the reasons why you hire a nanny. Is it because the family conditions are rich or not allowed? And I'm the kind that family conditions don't allow.

My husband lost his mother a few years ago and his father was in poor health. There is no one to look after our children. In order to afford a house, raise a baby and live in Shenzhen, I have to guarantee my job. Do I choose to deliberately avoid the hard work of raising children?

In fact, mothers who give birth to children know that children are not involved with themselves all the time, and how much mothers can sacrifice for their children. But I'm afraid that when she grows up, she can't give her better growth conditions and be a good mother who makes her proud. So I chose to hire a nanny instead of bringing it myself, not to avoid hard work and fatigue, but in fact I didn't feel more relaxed.

After having a baby, I also grow into a better self, not afraid of hard work and fatigue, just for a better tomorrow.