The first love is too handsome, what effect will it have on the future love?

I think this will make it more difficult to find a partner in the future, because I always unconsciously compare my new partner with my first love! First love probably determines a starting point. In the future, the criteria for finding a boyfriend will only go up. Either he has excellent characteristics on the other hand, or you hit it off particularly, otherwise you will be better than first love before you can go on, otherwise you will always think about first love!

For example, your first love is a very warm handsome guy, and his performance in all aspects is unparalleled. If they don't end up together, for whatever reason, the woman will remember all the good things of boys. This kind of goodness is the "anchor" in your heart. When making friends with the opposite sex again, there will always be a comparison between the ex-boyfriend and the current boyfriend intentionally or unintentionally. The obvious feature of being handsome or not will greatly affect whether there will be in-depth communication in the future. The final result is often the more depressed you are, so you always feel that men are getting worse and worse, so you give up after a little contact. It seems to outsiders that it is a picky look, but I don't know that the baby is bitter, so it may become a leftover woman. Therefore, you should find the anchor in your heart in time, and don't let it become your curse.

Of course, I think it is estimated that in the eyes of many experienced people, first love is simply a game played by children. How can it be called love? But in my opinion, first love should be ignorant and shy, and this feeling is the taste of first love.

So if you haven't had your first love yet, if you are not sure whether you can grow old with each other, please don't go to those handsome guys, because that will cover your eyes and affect your judgment. If your first love is excellent, you'd better hold on to it, instead of grasping and sticking hard from time to time, but enhance your charm and make yourself better. If you finally have to break up with your first love, for whatever reason, don't judge your current position by your ex's handsomeness. Even if you can't help but compare, tell yourself to accept everything about your current boyfriend, including all kinds of shortcomings.