# Qipa said # In the next 30 years, I will write you a letter now. do you want to see it ?

? This is still an argument: I wrote you a letter 30 years later. do you want to see it ?

? Thirty years later, I am over sixty and old. What can she write? Nothing more than, based on her own experience and lessons, after experiencing life tests such as career, marriage, children and family at that age, she poured all her regrets about past lives into this letter. She should write about how to avoid risks now and how to face what may happen in the future. It's like you got the script and predicted your life in advance. While piercing the reality, I feel like I am in the throat, suggesting that I have made different behavioral choices to avoid risks. But after that, can I really meet a better self?

People are full of curiosity, like to do psychological tests, like horoscopes, like divination, like to explore other planets, and the exploration of the unknown is endless. Now I dumped you with a given result, and such an attractive letter is in front of me. It is like an anchor stuck in your heart all the time, which makes you miss it. If it were me, I wouldn't understand and dare to look.

? It can't be because I know that if I read it, it will definitely affect my every thought, every move and every choice in the future. I became a marionette, afraid and unable to control my behavior. I'm afraid I'll get the script and smash it to pieces. I feel that I have overdrawn my life and tried to get rid of the weakness of human nature.

? I dare not, because I know the result. If the result is good enough, I will definitely not go all out again. Psychological tests have proved that stating your goals will reduce your motivation to achieve them. Will you continue to work hard for the known results? A colleague told me a true story, because there was a temple that had a smart sign, so my colleague's friend asked for a sign before a big exam, but when he got home, he didn't turn over the book or brush a question. As a result, it is natural to imagine that he failed in the exam, blaming that for not signing it correctly. Isn't it actually the sequela after we read the letter? If you know the good result, you will not work hard, and the natural good result will be destroyed.

? The meaning of life is not that everything in life is perfect. Some regrets, some efforts, some heartache, can not be missed. Reading letters is cheating, which will change the regularity of human existence. I may not be able to give a more perfect answer. "People have the virtue of courage because there are unknown risks to avoid, and then people develop these virtues of courage and caution. These virtues are based on the rules of human existence. "

? In the face of this letter, she fell asleep. Since she chose not to read it, she ruined it and returned to her present self. If I have to write to myself 30 years ago, at the age of babbling, I can only write to study hard and encourage me every day. Think about it this way, these things are actually understood. Is it the key to my efforts now?

? Live in the present, and walk the road you choose on your knees.

I am Ying Ying, a miscellaneous school. I learn everything, but I never stop learning.