After the ambiguous period, the boy's mentality is broken, and what the boy did after breaking up shows that he loves you.

Breaking up in an ambiguous period can help us intuitively understand each other's thoughts. If he likes you, he will be anxious after not hearing from you, so that he can understand your importance. What kind of behavior does a boy like you after an affair?

What is the mentality of boys after the ambiguous period?

At the beginning, most boys were calm when they were disconnected.

Two people are in an ambiguous period, and the girl suddenly disconnects from the boy, which may be because of something or because she wants to completely disconnect. At first, the boy's heart was actually calm. He doesn't feel how sad it is to be disconnected. At the beginning of breaking off diplomatic relations, boys didn't feel anything. Maybe he is not only an ambiguous object, but also disconnected from you. He can talk to other members of the opposite sex.

After a while, boys will feel puzzled.

A man who doesn't love you won't contact you at all when you break up with him. He doesn't care where you are or what you are doing, and he doesn't want to know what you will be like without you in his heart! But if he has you in his heart and he really likes you, then you have been out of touch with him for some time, and he will certainly wonder how you suddenly disappeared and what happened to you.

The right man began to worry.

The relationship between the opposite sex is ambiguous, which shows that you are attracted to each other and appreciate each other. When the relationship is ambiguous, breaking off the relationship is also to make him anxious. For men, the hard-won feelings are not so precious after all. Let him worry about you, let him feel the preciousness of this feeling, and he will want it more and cherish it more. Feelings, nature is the most beautiful, but in this world, where there are so many two of a kind, until the hoary head. If you don't play a little "scheming", maybe it is impossible between you. You can only succeed if you "disconnect" properly, let him find out his feelings for you, start to worry and take the initiative to find you.

What do boys do to show their love when they are disconnected?

Extreme pain

After breaking up with you, one thing that can best reflect whether a man has you in his heart is undoubtedly his emotional change. If a man's mood plummets and he is in great pain after leaving you, it shows that he is attached to this relationship and reluctant to give up. Only when he loves you deeply will he be reluctant to leave.

Find a way to save it.

If a man still has you in his heart after breaking up, he will try his best to save you, and even seek solutions from your friends, relatives and girlfriends. After all, people around you know you best and know where your emotions are, such as where you will go when you are unhappy; What do you do when you are sad? What will you do if you encounter depression, and so on. As long as a man has you in his heart, he will be reluctant to part with you and try to save you. On the road of maintaining love, he will persevere and go forward bravely. Even if you set many obstacles for him, he will cross them one by one, so that you can feel his sincerity and concentration.

Secretly guarding you

A seemingly tangled, in fact, very gentle and moving concern and waiting, which is the witness that men can't let you go after breaking up. He does still have you in his heart, but he doesn't know if he is still in your heart. Any response from you can awaken his obsession and admiration. After breaking up with you, he will always follow you, follow you, help you silently and protect you secretly. Even if you are indifferent, he will continue this behavior. The most positive thing is not to like, but to forget.

Will boys come to you after an affair?

If I like you very much, I will probably come to you. But if you have bad feelings for each other, boys also have self-esteem. In this case, they usually don't take the initiative to come to you. Therefore, before we disconnect, we should know what we can get from disconnection, and don't be self-defeating

Problems that girls should pay attention to when they are ambiguous

Know your "bottom line"

Before determining the relationship, it is best not to have an intimate relationship with an ambiguous object unless you can accept the possibility of being "short-term selected" by the man. You think, if the intimate relationship takes place in the ambiguous period, then boys will definitely feel that they can enjoy the sweetness of their boyfriends and girlfriends since the ambiguous period. Then why do you have to confess and take the next step? And possessive boys will worry, are you so casual with other boys? This bottom line must be kept well. Therefore, when a boy tentatively wants to hold your hand for the first time, a girl can give a clear signal: "Only a boyfriend can hold my hand." In this way, the other party will know what to do next.

Don't rush to end the affair.

The most taboo in the ambiguous period is "rushing to attack the heart." We should slow down and enjoy the little beauty of the ambiguous period, instead of blindly chasing the "progress bar" As we all know, the next step in the ambiguous period is to establish a love relationship. If the ambiguous parties rashly determine the love relationship without knowing each other, it is easy to end in failure. You might as well set some rules for your ambiguous period, such as meeting no more than twice a week, making a concluding speech on your own initiative every time you chat, etc. Instead of falling in love hastily, it is better to grasp the prime time of the ambiguous period, get to know each other well, and carefully determine each other's feelings before making a decision.

Never exercise your girlfriend's rights easily.

Girls should learn to pay at any stage. Don't just start making superficial remarks, let alone start asking for each other like girlfriends because they didn't reply to your information in time, or because they couldn't keep an appointment in time because of unexpected events, and easily exercise their girlfriend's rights. Doing so, on the one hand, will make you look particularly naive, on the other hand, it will also send a signal to the boy that you care about him very much. If at this stage, the other person doesn't like you so much, then your behavior is likely to have the opposite result.