How to establish identity and status in the husband's family

1 Have a reliable family. If she lives on her husband's family, or often takes the blame, no matter what you do, your status is high.

Your husband loves and respects you. If your husband doesn't love you, respects you and bosses you around, you will lose face in your in-laws. How can you have dignity?

You have a job, an income and a circle of friends. No matter your job is good or bad, your income is high or low, and how many friends you have. In short, if you quarrel and get embarrassed, at least you have a place to complain and have the ability to go out for fun. Otherwise, you can only endure great injustice, because you have nowhere to go, nowhere to complain and no money to go.

When it's time to be tough, be tough. Everyone likes to pinch soft persimmons. If you compromise everything, you will eventually find that everyone bullies you.

No matter how old you are, don't give up keeping in shape, dress yourself up and study. Men are visual animals. Except for their mothers, few men have great patience and interest in a woman who is out of shape, dressed in sloppy or rustic clothes, and has a short mouth except for her parents.