Peach blossoms used to be very good, and the longer they grew, the worse they became.

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Author: Ding Jiaqing

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Because I have learned a lot, experienced a lot, lost a lot and got hurt a lot. So I became mature, with my own thoughts, my own unique pursuits and insights that others could not understand.

Therefore, we are more and more looking forward to being accompanied, more and more eager to be understood, and more and more want to find beauty and hope to support us to continue on that painful and tangled road called pursuit.

In fact, loneliness itself is the necessity of growth. Because we are destined to be different, lose the best passerby in our life, be gradually smoothed by reality, learn to live with various masks, dance on tiptoe for our dreams, love you, and be unwilling in our hearts.

As we grow older, we are afraid of being hurt, our hearts are getting farther and farther away, and our true thoughts are getting deeper and deeper. But I long for others to give me their heart and say what they think. Is it possible?

If you want to communicate with each other, then exchange your heart for your heart; If you feel that people can't understand you and enjoy loneliness, it will encourage you to grow up, become a better person and find people with similar interests. Why are you afraid of loneliness? You are lonely because of what you want. Then, the dream, future, hope and maturity you pursue are the best reasons for you to stick to it.

Hang in there, that's it. In the future, you will be grateful to you now.