Will parents divorce if they disagree?

Marriage without the support of the man's family will not be happy for a long time.

There is a saying that "a marriage without parents' blessing is often not a good marriage." Regardless of men and women, in fact, most parents are thinking of their children. The reason for their opposition is often based on their own marriage experience and understanding of simple life, which is actually reasonable. Unmarried men and women, lacking experience in this field, marry with the eagerness and impulse of love, and the result is always flustered. "

If you observe human nature deeply enough, you will find that when a man grows up, he basically becomes his father and a woman becomes her mother.

We often say "mother and child are connected". Parents have a great influence on their children. Many people invisibly accept their parents' aesthetics and values, and their parents' opposition actually represents the voices of some of them.

Just like when I was doing emotional counseling, many people hesitated because of their parents' opposition. I said, if you really love each other, why do you have to listen to your parents? If you really want to get married, can your parents tie you up?

The answer they gave me was surprisingly consistent-"In fact, the main reason is that I think what my parents said is also reasonable".

See, that's the point!

Therefore, you should be clear that it is not the parents who object, but another voice in his heart is also opposing-people's feelings are very complicated. You like a person very much, not all of them, and even completely opposite emotions are mixed in.

In reality, pure emotion does not exist, nor does the idea of following a person wholeheartedly. We always hesitate, weigh and compare, and finally decide to go together. It's just that the heart that wants to be together overwhelms the heart that wants to be separated, but it doesn't mean that there is no heart that wants to be separated.

Parents just tell the reason why you want to separate.

On the surface, parents are only opposed to marriage, but in fact, parents are opposed to many things.

Many parents, their greatest achievement in life, is to constantly turn against their children.

I told you not to play with water when I was a child. Later, let you not play games; I went to junior high school and told you not to fall in love. I went to college and told you not to be in such a hurry. When you graduate, you have nothing and no experience. It's time to work hard, but they tell you not to work hard and get married quickly.

A marriage without a man's support will not last long.