What is the most fatal factor for couples to break up?

Why did you break up? Many people who encounter emotional problems will be troubled by this problem, but do you know that there is always more than one reason for breaking up? Many people who have been broken up have a high sense of demand and poor emotional control because they can't accept the fact of breaking up. It is difficult to analyze what caused the breakdown of the relationship.

Today, I will sort out three common reasons that lead to the breakdown of couples' relationship. How much did you eat?

1, the crisis of trust is gradually emerging.

Your busy work often ignores her feelings, you interact more and more with a certain opposite sex on social networking sites, and what you promised her has not been done for various reasons, which will lead to your words and deeds being different and your own framework collapsing. More importantly, these details are enough to consume her trust in you.

A stable and happy couple, their mutual trust is very high. Without trust, the quality of their relationship will be lower and lower. One party's lack of security will make two people face a crisis of trust emotionally, which will often lead to contradictions and quarrels, leading to the gradual breakdown of the relationship.

2. Emotional imbalance

According to a survey in Emotional Psychology, the ratio of men and women who can get along is six men and four women, because in most cases, men have to live a woman's life and pay more than women. Women are very emotional animals, so women's emotional needs need to be met. When the supply of men can't match the demand of women, it will induce a series of emotional problems.

In a love relationship, if the demand and supply of both sides are not well matched, it is difficult for both sides to maintain a balance point. When the demand of one party is too high or too low, or the supply of the other party can't satisfy the other party, the imbalance of supply will lead to the breakdown of emotional relationship.

3. Self-attraction is constantly lacking.

When a couple spend more and more time together, the other person gets to know you better and better. Once there is a contradiction, it will make the other person gradually enlarge your shortcomings and lead to a gradual decline in your attraction to her. In the long run, women will gradually lose the fun of chasing you and feel that you can no longer attract yourself.

At the same time, because of familiarity, the freshness of your feelings is declining, and you have lost the basic elements of maintaining the relationship. Coupled with the accumulated contradictions and quarrels, your personal value is getting worse and worse in the eyes of women. Women are eager to explore the bigger world, and you lose the capital to control each other, so your emotional breakdown becomes close at hand.

1. Face up to your own problems and improve your personal mobility.

Men's words and deeds will be seen through by women sooner or later. You didn't pay attention to this problem before, and your emotional injury has already happened. Therefore, in the process of saving love, we must first learn to face up to our own problems and shortcomings, and improve our mobility to correct our bad habits.

If you want to rebuild emotional trust, you should start from yourself and prove to women that you have the ability to give them trust and security in the process of recovery. Enhance your subjective initiative and mobility, actively participate in your life and future construction, prove to women that you have the ability to do what you say and enhance your consistency.

2. High-value regression, reshaping its own framework.

If you want to completely solve the emotional crisis between the two sides, you should also learn to improve your own value and let women see a better you. In order to enhance your value, you have to broaden your horizons, expand your social life and gain more abilities in many ways. With the return of high value, you can let women see your actual actions to change yourself and believe that you sincerely repent.

In addition, in addition to improving the consistency of words and deeds, we must learn to reshape our own framework. Know each other's bottom line, be careful not to touch the points they hate, but also have your own bottom line, know what you should and shouldn't do, stop consuming women's positive emotions towards you, and make yourself better, so as to attract each other's eyes to fall on you again.

3. Grasp the needs of women and achieve a balance of supply.

After improving your own value, you should learn to increase your emotional input. Emotional investment is not blind, we must learn to grasp the needs of women. Consciously understand the psychology of both sexes and the needs of women. According to the needs of women, we can match your supply.

Women have different needs at different emotional stages. If you don't pay enough attention to each other's needs in your past relationship, you must learn to observe the right medicine in your recovery. At the same time, we should learn to control our emotional needs, avoid exposing our compound purpose in redemption, and at the same time, don't let ourselves want nothing, let a woman know that you are still her best choice. When a woman relies on you enough, are you still afraid that her feelings can't be redeemed?

Orange Love (ijuzi9999), a love guide and recovery expert around you.