How do you know if the girl you secretly love is secretly in love with yourself?

You can judge by paying more attention to the small details of her behavior. See if she has been peeking at you or looking in your direction, and see if she has been busy trying to get close to you.

If she is always staring at you, or looking at your direction, then she probably has a crush on you. Please note that there is a difference between eye contact in normal conversation and a more affectionate and focused gaze. When you have a crush on someone, most people hope that through frequent eye contact, the other person will notice her and become interested in her. You found her looking at you, so he looked away at once. If so, then he likes you.

Another example is to see if she always stands near you intentionally or unintentionally at parties. Does she always choose a seat near you at lunch? If the answer is yes, then she is really infatuated with you. She wants to show her concern for you and enjoys the feeling of close contact with you, so she will try her best to get close to you.

When you are in the same place with her, you can try to move to a place where she can't see you and see if she will move with you. If you two are standing in a crowd and talking to different people, you can try to stand behind someone and let that person block her view, and then see if she moves to see you.

Many people use body language when expressing their feelings, which also includes gestures. Girls often like to play with their hair or gently touch each other's shoulders or hands when facing the objects they admire. Because of inner excitement, boys are more inclined to use gestures to express their ideas when communicating with interested objects.

If she suddenly blushes when you are at the scene, smiles uncontrollably without warning, or doesn't dare to look into your eyes and looks restless, then congratulations! These performances completely exposed her thoughts.